“Circle round these thoughts of love,
encourage peace like hand in glove.
To honor, praise and love myself,
So I may give more to the rest,
of those who truly seek my light,
of Universal grace and rite.”


The Metaphysics of Love

Traditionally, metaphysics refers to the branch of philosophy that attempts to understand the fundamental nature of all reality, whether visible or invisible. It seeks a description so basic, so essentially simple, so all-inclusive that it applies to everything, whether divine or human or anything else. It attempts to tell what anything must be like in order to be at all.

Love and all it’s divine power can be manifested from within us! We can accept no more love than we are willing to give ourselves. The way we love others, STARTS with the way we love ourselves. Learning how to love ourselves begins with a few easy steps.

Research has shown, that there are three components to love and creating a happy relationship. This theory, developed by Robert Sternberg, is called the Triangular Theory of Love. These components are the fundamental building blocks on creating, nurturing and developing a long-lasting relationship.

From this page, there are so many ways to bring love into your life! Discover the difference between infatuation vs. love. Learn how to achieve the ultimate goal: unconditional love. Are you ready to take the love test and the relationship test? Get more sex: a guide to good clean fun! Without great love, you cannot have heart break. Learn the realization of our greatness. Discover how to encourage romance with feng shui, and how to use crystals associated with love. Work with the power of sexy scents and find out what your heart is telling you? with Andrew’s newest workbook and love journal .

Self Love Is Not Selfish Love

Self-love is probably the most important love we can do for ourselves AND others. It is very important that we love ourselves, first. When this truly occurs, the Universe allows all things to fall in to place very nicely!
Self examination is the only way to know.

The Triangle Theory of Love

The triangular theory of love is a theory of love developed by psychologist Robert Sternberg. In the context of interpersonal relationships, the three components of love”, according to the triangular theory, are an intimacy component, a passion component, and a decision/commitment component.

Unscientific Answers to Love

This love “smack” is not designed or researched by science.  Alas, it is the “gut” reaction to situations you may be blind to, but that others see. When you look back at past relationships, does this apply? How about when you evaluate your current relationship? What do you think?

Power of Love in Song

Music is the greatest stimulation of memories and our connection to important moments, next to scent!  Music is a magical transporter that can take us anywhere, based on our own association with a particular song or strain of musical joy!  Here you will find some of the greatest and most memorable songs associated to love!  Which one is your favorite?

Natural Laws of Attraction

The “Law of Attraction”, is just one of 7 major scientific laws of nature that we may not realize, controls all aspects of our lives!  Along with some additional laws of physics, we are all governed by a set of natural actions and reactions that lead us from one incredible moment to the next.  Here you will find a wonderful interpretation of our best selves…

Heart Healthy Meals

Whether it is Valentine’s day, a special night between lovers or you are looking for a meal to nourish the heart ~ here are wonderful recipes and tips for bringing attention to the tastes that we love and for those who love them!  This “food for thought” helps us to reconnect and find delicious “way to a loved one’s heart through their stomach“.

Heartbreak: The Realization of Our Greatness

Heartbreak is one of the most trying, difficult and hurtful processes we can go through. Heart break is not just an emotional state but can induce real patho-physiologic feelings of pain in the heart.  It has been said that the “most sexual organ is the brain and the organ of most intelligence is truly the heart”. We often think a lot with our hearts.

Love Quiz

Find out what your subconscious knows!  Learn more about who YOU are and how you handle your love life. Are you really ready for love or do you still need to play the field? You may find the answers shocking!

Relationship Quiz

This quiz was designed to help you understand who you are and where you stand in your relationship. If you are not currently in one, this quiz will assist you in comprehending just who you are and what it is you are looking for in a committed union.

Crystals for Love

Throughout history, crystals have been given to win over a lovesake, honor a relationship, conjure up a love spell or bring about awareness for the most powerful feeling of all ~ love!  It is with this list, you will find the ancient meanings and metaphysical properties of some of the world’s most brilliant stones associated with love, romance and passion!

Attracting Love with Feng Shui

You may not realize it, but you just might be repelling your future love away from you!  You may be jeopardizing your current relationship just by the way your home is set up!  What is it, that unites our energy, or can actually pull us apart?  It is the relationship of Vibration or Attraction. See how this ancient “art of placement”, can change your life…

Sexy Scents for Love & Romance

Try something new and different with your lover. Combine the art of massage with the magic of aromatic massage oils. This sensual mix stirs the senses and can send sparks flying between sweethearts. Also try diffusing any one of these oils in the air to spark the senses!  Essential oils are a powerful way to stimulate, encourage and romance….

Love & Sacred Sexuality

Casual hook-ups can be hot, fun and exciting, but sex with the person you’re in love with is hotter, more passionate, and can be much more fulfilling. This is often due to the fact that you trust each other more, satisfaction is important to both of you and you are less afraid to ask for what you enjoy. There is also the fact that you know your lover’s body like a map, have a good level of respect for them and the emotional connection creates more of a spark! 

An Anthem of Unconditional Love

I love you as you are as you seek to find your own special way to relate to the world, or the way you feel that is right for you. It is important that you are the person you want to be and not someone that I or others think you should be. I realize that I’ve not been where you have been or viewed life from that angle. I have not walked life in your shoes so how can I know what you need.

I make no judgement of your choices for if I were to deny your right to evolution then I would deny that right to myself. To those who would choose a way I cannot walk, I will never deny you the gift of this path nor the love that has been bestowed within you for all creation, as I love you, so I shall be loved, as I sow, so I shall reap. I am simply here to enjoy the path along side you, with you.

I cannot always see the higher picture of divine order. For it is the inalienable right of all life to choose their own evolution and with great love I acknowledge your right to determine your future. In humility I bow to the realization that the way I see is best for me does not have to mean that it is also right for you. I know that you are led as I am following the inner excitement to know your own path.

The love I feel is for all of God’s world. I know that every living thing is part of God and I
feel a love deep with every person, and all tree, and flower, every bird, river, ocean and for all the creatures in all the world. I live my life in loving service being the best me I can becoming wiser in the perfection of divine truth, becoming happier in the joy of unconditional love.”

-author unknown



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