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Music of Love


Love and all it's divine power can be manifested from within us! We can accept no more love than we are willing to give ourselves. The way we love others, STARTS with the way we love ourselves. Learning how to love ourselves begins with a few easy steps. Want to know more?

Research has shown, that there are three components to love and creating a happy relationship. This theory, developed by Robert Sternberg, is called the Triangular Theory of Love. These components are the fundamental building blocks on creating, nurturing and developing a long-lasting relationship. Want to know more?

From this page, there are so many ways to bring love into your life! Discover the difference between infatuation vs. love. Learn how to achieve the ultimate goal: unconditional love. Are you ready to take the love test and the relationship test? Get more sex: a guide to good clean fun! Without great love, you cannot have heart break. Learn the realization of our greatness. Discover how to encourage romance with feng shui, and how to use crystals associated with love. Work with the power of sexy scents and find out what your heart is telling you? with Andrew's newest workbook and love journal .

Gifts for Love and Romance

Empowerment Kits

Our Love Kit is a great motivator! These "Priority of Life" kits are fun, educational, and a reaffirming way of creating positive energy, confidence, and the desire to achieve what you want in life!! It is a cross between a craft project and a meditation for the soul!

These are positive affirmation kits that help you to connect, learn and find focus. They are designed to assist you in creating your intention, putting your desires out to the Universe and manifesting what you wish. Ask, Believe, Receive. Priority of Life kits are a wonderful "tool" to help you achieve your ultimate goal: BALANCE.

Each kit contains the specific ingredients for completing your "Affirmations" and also contains herbs, a candle, essential oil, incense and complete instructions. Each kit also comes with a FREE HEALING CRYSTAL and Beautiful Gift Bag Try our Love Empowerment Kit!

Product Name: Priorities Of Life Kit $29.95 Add to Cart

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Create Your Own Love Gift

This is a fun and easy way to create your own unique gift for the one you adore! Each gift set comes standard with a special message card, a rose scented box with red tissue paper and a sprinkling of rose petals... the rest is up to you! The large gift box comes with your choice of 8 gifts. The small gift box comes with 4 choices of gifts.

We offer a variety of products from scent therapy to touch therapy and herbal therapy to metaphysical products. Consider our candles, oils, herbal teas, massage tools, scented potpourri, crystals, energy gifts, chocolates and other aphrodisiacs... all themed around the subject of love! So... chose the gift box you want, then click ADD TO CART. Here you will be given the choices to fill your gift box!

Make lovin' fun!

Product name: Small Love Gift $59.95 each Add to Cart

Product name: Large Love Gift $89.00 Add to Cart

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Heart Keepsake Gift Box

This very special gift of love has been designed just for the holidays! This beautiful red heart-shaped keepsake box is embroidered with delicate Chinese embroidery with a red tassel. This gift set includes:

- A puffy Rose Quartz crystal heart. Rose Quartz represents love, beauty, peacefulness, forgiving, lovingness, self-love and emotional balance. This crystal is the centerpiece of the gift set and can be used as a great massage tool!

- A box of red rose cone incense. Light these beautifully scented incense to set the mood.

Rose Quartz crystal elixir. This perfume body oil comes in a convenient roll on bottle and is a blend of essential oils of rose and geranium with baby rose quartz crystals in this vibrationally compatible elixir.

Rose bud scented sachet. A pink sachet filled with scented rose buds makes a great aromatherapy addition to the bath. Add the rose buds to your bath water or place the sachet in your garment drawer.

Product Name: Heart Keepsake Gift Box $34.95
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Puffy Rose Quartz Heart

Translucent to clear Pink. Love, beauty, peacefulness, forgiving, lovingness, self-love, emotional balance. Soft. Gently soothes and warms heart center. Emotional healing, loss, stress, hurt, fear, low confidence, resentment, anger. Slowly eases childhood traumas/neglect/lack of love, low self-esteem. Cleanse and recharge often. Aligns mental, emotional, and astral bodies. Deeply in tune with emotional states. Helps diffuse negative stimuli and uncomfortable memories. Helps us discover the ability to love ourselves and makes us more open to other people. It is of particular value in helping us to forgive ourselves, hastening self-acceptance. Helps us realize that all change is important, even difficult change. Stimulates love and tender appreciation of all things. Advantageous for the heart and circulatory systems. Also helps the cleansing organs. The reproductive organs may become healthier. Said to help increase fertility.

Choose from two sizes:

Product Name: Small Puffy Rose Quartz Heart (measure 1" x 1" x 1/2") $15.00 Add to Cart

Product Name: Medium Puffy Rose Quartz Heart (measure 1 1/2" x 1 1/2" x 2/4") $25.00 Add to Cart

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Flat Gemstone Hearts

Genuine gemstone polished flat hearts bring together the energy of the crystal itself as well as the symbolism of love, passion and compassion that a heart reveals! They fit in the palm of your hand and make a great massage tool! These polished gems are 1.5 inches in size and are featured in Amethyst, Calcite, Fluorite, Hematite, Rhodonite and Unakite

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Find Your Celestial Love Match

Astrological Charting is the art of forecasting! We are proud to introduce Tonio, one of the most renowned, most incredible astrological intuitives to Peacefulmind.com. For over 20 years Tonio has become most noted for his "Celestial Relationships"(tm) and finding the right astrological combination for YOU!

Tonio's unique method is based on the psychology of each sign. We all know that each sign has specific traits and is influenced by their associated planets, moon and sun signs. Sun sign compatibility takes into account only one of hundreds of compatibility factors. Many other factors are involved when evaluating the compatibility of two people. Are you ready for love? Find your match now! Also, discover your free personal horoscope and love forecast each day! Aries * Taurus * Gemini * Cancer * Leo * Virgo * Libra * Scorpio * Sagittarius * Capricorn * Aquarius * Pisces

Chakra Scent-ology Perfume

Finally, after years in the making, Andrew has created a perfume essences that captures all seven Chakra energies in one bottle! Working in collaboration with French perfumologist, Francois "The Nose" Renou, they have brought together the "spirit of 7 flowers", capturing the Vibessence ™ of each floral's rich harmonics to create this amazing fragrance! With a top note of jasmine, middle note of tuberose and bottom note of sandalwood, these rich scents are prominent in Indian culture and mythology. Sweet and powerful going on, with a gentle lingering scent throughout the day, these nectars come from night-blooming flowers, which also have an association with the full moon. The bottle has been specifically designed to capture all seven rainbow colors of light, depending on how you turn the bottle! With a precious "stem" applicator, this allows for just the right amount to be applied.

* Balance your energies * Empower your senses * Enlighten your spirit

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Create Your Own Kundalini Coil Necklace

Kundalini literally meaning "coiled" in Sanskrit, a corporeal energy - an unconscious, instinctive or libidinal force or Shakti, envisioned either as a goddess or else as a sleeping serpent coiled at the base of the spine. Awake this energy with your own creation! These beautiful European coils can be expanded to fit your most inspirational gem tumble stones! Choose the semi-precious tumble stone you would like in your necklace. Each necklace comes with either a horizontal silver coil with silver plated chain or in a vertical gold plated coil and black cord chain with clasp. Each stone is unique and no 2 stones are alike. Consider some of our most popular crystals such as:

amethyst - spirituality and dream recall
aventurine - abundance, good luck, money, joy, balance, clarity
bloodstone - raise consciousness, used to calm, ground, revitalize
carnelian - passion and sexuality and trauma healing
citrine - mental, emotional clarity, problem-solving, memory, confidence, self-discipline
fluorite - important balancer, healer, rekindle sexual appetite, heighten intuitive powers
hematite - grounding and encourages ones survival instincts, protection, self esteem
onyx - balances and grounds, reduces sex drive, promotes fidelity, absorbs intensity
rose quartz - love, beauty, peacefulness, forgiving, lovingness, self-love, balance
clear quartz - master healer and "stone of power", aura balancing
rhodonite - "stone of love", confidence, will power, self worth, dignity
sodalite - healing, meditation and wisdom, communication for self and writing, expression
turquoise - general healer for all illnesses, friendship, communication, creativity, serenity

Don't see the stone you want in your necklace?
-Hit the add to cart button
-select "choose your own stone"
-Go to check out
-then under "Special Instructions" write in the name of the stone you wish to have in the necklace.

Choose from 2 designs: Coil (horizontal lines) or Spiral (vertical lines).

Product Name: Coil Necklace $24.95 Add to Cart

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Law of Attraction Necklace

This incredible hand crafted pendant works with the metaphysical healing power of crystals! Ask, Believe, Receive! The law of attraction works when we first ask the Universe for what we want. We must have faith and believe that we are deserving and know that we are worthy of the request. We now must be open and receptive for our desire to manifest. This pendent contains:

Aquamarine and Amethyst, which open the connection to the Universe through divine guidance and intuition, allowing us to ask for and receive information.

Emerald, which heals the heart and clears the emotional body. We are now ready to create pure intention allowing us to believe that we are deserving of our request.

Pearl, which promotes purity of mind, body, and spirit; opening a divine connection of highest good for all enabling us to receive our gifts with gratitude.

These are very unique, handcrafted stone combinations, each item individually made, so no 2 pieces are exactly alike.

Transformers are approximately 3/4 to 1 inch in diameter. All transformers come with black satin cord and satin pouch and include helpful information on how to work with your transformer stones.

Product Name: Transformer Necklace $39.95 Add to Cart

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Garnet Seed Necklace

This beautiful seemless red garnet necklace is made of bunches of tiny garnet seed crystals. It is an over the head, no latch necklace made from hundreds of sparkling tiny garnet stones. This well constructed necklace is 13 inches long.

Garnet symbolizes faith, love, devotion and trust. Garnet is most famous for balancing our emotional states. Therefore, garnet is one of the best stones for soothing emotional stress and balance. Garnet is a stone of passion. It is given as a gift of love's attraction, a gift of estranged love or a gift of quick return. Red represent love and helps the aspirant to strive for improvement in moral conduct. Garnet has been used for protection against the perils of travel. It encourages a strength and therefore, personal power, which increases success, a victorious attitude and sparks the energies of creativity. Garnet will show you the way out. It is the perfect stone for clearing the Emotional Layer of the Aura.

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Fertility Quartz

The Sceptre Crystal or fertility stone is considered a naturally formed crystal that belongs to the quartz family. These crystals can have a unique clarity that almost looks like water. The crystal actually looks like a ruler's sceptre; a rod at the base with a crown-like configuration on the top. The clearer the point on the sceptre the stronger it's ability as a healing tool. This crystal has an excellent configuration for the transmission of directional energy. Because of the phallic point, it is believed to harness' the energies of quartz as a tool to enhance fertility.

Sceptres act as a purifier and tunes into the frequency of each individual. Will unblock specific areas or organs blocked from transmitting or receiving the flow of energy throughout the body. Helpful in guiding our search for the meaning and importance of existence. It will amplify the effects of individual stones and attune the treatment to the energy of an individual person. These fertility stones are tiny pocket size stones that are approximately 3/4 to 1 1/4 inches tall and make it easy to carry with you as needed. It assists in meditation and can be used in conjunction with any other stone or gem for specific physical problems.

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Shiva Lingams: The True Tantric Stone

Shiva Lingams originate at the Narmada River in the central western part of India, which is one of India's seven holy sites. Accessible only during the dry season, these stones are collected from the river bed. Lord Shiva is the supreme being revered by Hindus, and this fertility stone is often worshipped as his embodiment. Lingam describes the egg-like shape that is hand-polished to balanced proportions. Lingam is the sacred Sanskrit word for phallus.

In Tantra, the shape embodies the masculine energy; dynamic expression and knowledge. The markings or Yoni depicts female energy; wisdom and intuition. The Tantric Shiva Lingam unifies the dualistic female/male world into harmonious balance. This Sacred Stone relates to the Heart Chakra representing the harmony and balance of the soul that is maintained within the hearts of all of us. It also represents the Spleen/Sacral Chakra representing the stimulation of your reproductive organs.

The Shivas pictured, are approximately 1 1/2 inches in length, (small). and approximately 2 1/2 - 3 inches in length (medium)

Product Name: Shiva Lingam (small) $18.00 Add to Cart

Product Name: Shiva Lingam (medium) $38.00 Add to Cart

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Magic Eye Stone

These rare, natural occurrences in the crystal world are the "watchers" of the Mineral Kingdom! Each one is a unique formation that happens in all types of gemstones. Their properties are as special. These crystals are a symbol representing the capacity of human consciousness to see beyond the obvious, or perceive beyond the outwardly visible and tangible; to reach that inner source of life which is the font of divine energy and power. This symbolism says that all human beings who use their discriminative powers, can, in the silence of their inner selves, seek the sanctuary of truth and purity. Magic eye stones have been used in many cultures. An Indian symbol that is represented as the third eye, this stone is often used in Chakra Balancing at the Third Eye position and in Aura Cleansing at the Celestial layer.

Please Note: every stone is ONE of a kind, comes in different shapes and colors and are very unique! Andrew will personally hand-choose a wonderful magic eye stone from his large collection, just for you. We include the metaphysical properties and information on how to work with and enjoy your "one of a kind" magic eye stone.

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Crystal Rose Water Bath/Perfume

This is a unique rose water made specifically for encouraging, embracing and accepting love and self-love! Andrew has taken the hydrosol from the rose petals of Guadalupe, concocted in holy water and infused his Angel's Mist Rose Essential Oil with the power of rose quartz crystal to create a triple strength, soul centering and highly sensual experience!

This concentrated rose water can be used up to 7 times in a ritual bath to bring about the awareness of love and self-love. It can be used often as a perfume water whenever you need a splash of affection! Crystal Essence Rose Water is blended in a gentle balance of active ingredients, is alcohol free and comes in a 2 ounce amber self-dropper bottle.

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Crystal Love Elixirs

Love oils and crystals together! These wonderfully scented oils come in .05 ounce roll-on bottles and contain genuine crystals in vibrationally compatible essential oil blends. They are fantastic for Chakra work, energy healing, as an Aura Balancer, as a balancing perfume oil or simply as a "refresher" for your Gem Potpourri. $9.95

Choose from:
Moonstone-Love Drawing/Intution: Jasmine, Nightbloom
Garnet-Inspiration/Self Love: Rose, Ylang Ylang
Blue Topaz-Harmony/Balance: Clary Sage, Lavender
Carnelian-Passion/Sexuality: Musk, Patchouli
Amethyst Oil-Meditation/Psychic Awareness: Lavender, Sandalwood
Aventurine Oil-Emotional Healing/Good Luck: Peppermint, Rosemary
Citrine-Awareness/Power: Orange, Lemon
Clear Quartz-Enlightenment/Spirituality: Sandalwood, Rose
Hematite-Courage/Protection: Cedarwood, Pine
Iolite-Truth/Heartfelt: Lavender, Rose
Obsidian-Letting Go/Protection: Thyme, Patchouli
Peridot-Healing/Wealth: Spearmint, Peppermint
Red Jasper-Energy/Grounding: Cedar, Clove
Rose Quartz-Heart Awakening/Self Love: Rose, Tuberose
Smoky Quartz-Protection/Spirit Lifting: Orange, Musk
Tiger's Eye-Money Drawing/Will Power: Sandalwood, Cedar
Tourquoise-Friendship/Healing: Lemon, Neroli

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Romantic Glow Bath Salts

Natural sea salts infused with organic essential oils for your bath or foot soak. They relax, rejuvenate, and revitalize your skin, tone your body and make for a healing experience. Romantic Glow is a blend of rose and geranium. Experience our other incredible, all natural healing salts in Lavender Fields, Ocean Breeze (coconut and gardenia) or Citrus Twist (sweet orange and lemon). Our salts are colored with only natural ingredient!

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Pulse Point Therapy

Based on the studies of Traditional Chinese Medicine, this remarkable therapy utilizes the power of 100% essential oils blended for harmonizing, tonifying and rebalancing our most common emotional disorders and their physical manifestations. Apply behind ears, on temples, wrists and tops of feet or wear as perfume. These unique blends come in .35 oz roll on bottles for easy application and also come with instructions on additional acupu-points for individual situations.

Regulate/Relax - used for nervous tension and agitation.This therapy soothes Liver Qi stagnation, calms the Heart and mind (Shen). Contains lavender, chamomile, clary sage.

Settle the Mind - used for overthinking and worry, which tax the spleen and stomach. This therapy harmonizes and roots the "earth energy" to help us feel grounded and comforted. It also regulates and clarifies the mind. Contains frankincense, myrrh and patchouli.

Calm/Reassure - used for anxiety and apprehension. This therapy tonifies Kidney Qi deficiency by harmonizing imbalances of fear, apprehension and insecurity. All water imbalances. It also quells energetic imbalances of the Heart and the "fire element". Therefore, harmonizing the energy between the Heart and Kidneys. Contains juniper, lavender, rose.

Clarifying the Mind - used for poor concentration and memory. This therapy tonifies the Spleen, Heart and Kidneys. These oils increase the circulation of blood and improve the ability to concentrate and remember. Contains peppermint, clary sage, pine needle.

Boosting Confidence - used for lack of confidence and poor self-esteem. This therapy balances Heart, Lung and Kidney Qi. The heart is the emotional body, the Kidneys "root" the mind with determination while the Lungs maintain our psychological boundaries. Contains rosemary, thyme, juniper.

Soothing Anger - used for anger and frustration. Resentment, frustration and irritability are the energetic's of the Liver. Anger is a necessary and creative force, but when it is out of control, we set ourselves up for a destructive pattern. This therapy increases the smooth flow of Liver Qi. Contains orange, grapefruit, bergamot.

Empowerment - used for disempowerment and indecision. This therapy tonifies the Yang energy and benefits the Heart and Kidneys, Liver and Gallbladder. Disempowerment can be seen as a lack of determination, feeling vulnerable and resistance to change. Chronic indecision and unassertiveness can benefit from this therapy. Contains ginger, thyme, orange.

Uplift the Spirit - used for depression and negativity. This therapy helps to stabilize psychological issues and pressure that lead to imbalances of the "elements" and their related organs. It helps to sooth Liver Qi (wood), refresh the spirit, by tonifying Heart (fire) and Kidneys (water), grounds the Spleen (earth) and clears the Lungs (metal). Contains orange, lemon, clary sage, ginger, rose.

Relating - used for love and friendship. This therapy not only works for issues of love and sexuality but for relating as a whole. All elements play a major part in how we relate on every level. Contains lavender, jasmine, rose, ylang ylang.

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Romantic Rose Incense

The Romantic Rose Incense Cones: represent love, trust and self-acceptance. Rose's psychological properties play mostly upon it effects on the mind. The mind, which is the center of our emotional being, extends it's energy to the heart.

These cone incense come 10 in a pack with a little metal burner. They are made with Damascena roses, pure essential oils and hand rolled in India. Beautifully scented! Bring the exotic fragrance of roses into your home.

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Posybrew Flower Essences

Posybrew Flower Essences aka Posybrew Healing Essences is a Florida (USA) producer and distributor of single flower essences and high potency essence blends. Essences are an ancient gentle and subtle vibrational therapy for emotional comfort and mental strength. Essences should be the first line of defense for treating problems with thinking, feeling, expressing and behaving. Our popularity can be attributed to the freshness and potency of our products. Flowers are collected at their freshest bloom and, along with distilled water, are measured and weighed for exact balance. The mixture is then left to "Posybrew" undisturbed in the warm Florida sun. Our essences are never boiled and no plant parts are incorporated in the resulting product. Posybrew Flower Essences are 100% safe, organic, and effective. As a topical mist, essences work independently from, and do not interfere with any medication. There are no side effects to their use and you cannot overdose. An essence starts to work immediately but, unlike drugs, adjustments will be subtle which you may not notice for a few days. Watch for changes in your response to others and your attitude about certain things. Posybrew Essences are scent-free, colorless and tasteless. You can mist or rub an essence on your skin, pour it into your bath or sauna, mix it with your creams. They can be used by anyone anytime, anywhere, anyhow. They are also an excellent complement to professional counseling.

LOVES ME - Put a spark back
in your relationship

Indication: You relationship is still strong but predictable and a bit dull. Put the spark back and refresh your commitment. Gardenia is a good stand-alone but with the addition of self-awareness essences you will be more aware of the new warmth.

Ingredients: The essence of:
Gardenia: Refresh your love; gain perception, self-awareness; new interest; vigor; reconnect; clarifies irritations; communication; feel good.
Basil: Self-identity; self-esteem; opens your heart to love; removes indecision; helps you negotiate peacefully.
Cosmos: Self-esteem; gives you confidence for positive expression.
Sunflower: Compassion; individuality; healthy ego; confidence.
Red Rose: Unblocks your love aspect; centering; endurance; nurturing; perception; spiritually uplifting.

Inactive Ingredients:
Pure distilled water. A minute amount of brandy as a preservative

Application: A starting application of 4 spritzes, 4 times per day; adjust for your convenience as need. Use daily for habit and consistency.

Product name: Loves Me - 1 ounce glass spritzer bottle - $24.95 Add to Cart

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LOVES ME NOT - it's over

Indication: Yearning, anger and grief over the affection for someone who has lost interest. No joy or interest in life. Low self-esteem. Unable to see the truth.
"Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option. Author Unknown

Ingredients: The essence of:
Crepe Myrtle: Relieves anger and resentment; aids positive expression; helps you move on.
Daylily: Discovery; addresses self-worth, self-esteem, self-assessment; trust in yourself.
Loves Lies Bleeding: Relieves the yearning; eases the hurt; eases the obsession; brings clarity to make good decisions; releases bitterness; supports forgiveness; positive attitude; move on; see yourself clearly and honestly.
Periwinkle: Identify options; see yourself clearly; review lifestyle; process the shock and recovery; supports healthy decision-making.
Red Rose: Centering; nurture self; unblocks self-pity, rejection; gives you courage.
Rosemary: Helps you embrace life; gives clarity; stimulates creativity. White Rose: Strength; removes old issues; frees you to love again; spiritually uplifting.

Inactive Ingredients:
Pure distilled water. A minute amount of brandy as a preservative

Application: A starting application of 4 spritzes, 4 times per day; adjust for your convenience as need. Use daily for habit and consistency.

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Candle with Intention

When the time is right to visit your sacred space, allow us to enlighten the journey. Each of our herbal magic candles has been designed with a specific intention using a unique blend of essential oils. Each candle comes with an affirmation and inspirational message.

Love is a sensory blend of Olive Oil, Patchouli, Rose, Clove, Lavender, Dragon's Blood. Use to attract someone to you. Use in combination with Harmony to find a compatible roommate. Use in combination with Abundance candle to attract clients to your business.

Product Name: Reiki Charged Love Pillar $9.95 Add to Cart

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Two Hearts Candle

This specialty candle was designed as a perfect gift to your loved ones or to remind you of a wonderful love. It comes with two little Victorian style brass heart charms that can double as a bracelet. This very cute candle is 2 x 6 inches and is scented with the very sensual and sweet 100% natural essential oil of Ylang-Ylang.The label reads: "No words are necessary between two loving hearts".

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Candle Gift Set Collection

Our Candle Gift Set Collection is one of our top selling products. The line has been lovingly and mindfully created to celebrate life and it's special occasions. Each collection comes with four square candles uniquely designed with complementary colors and scents, and wrapped with a beautiful illustrative band. They make great gifts for any occasion.

Love is a set of 4 candles and scents that are celebrated for their sensory qualities such as Patchouli, Rose, Clove, Lavender, Dragon's Blood, as well as the magical properties that many believe they possess. It includes 2 Love, Spirit and Harmony scents.

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The Love Votive Set

These are Reiki Energy-charged votive candles used for healing, harmonizing and balancing. One of the most beneficial and powerful means of meditation healing is by arranging candles in geometric layouts around yourself or an individual. Geometric energy is applied in the arranging of the candles for specific types of healing. Different geometric shapes will alter and enhance the effects of color and scent. It involves understanding what particular geometric patterns can do by using that particular layout around an individual to heal. Meditating within the center of these configurations, can heighten the entire experience! Here are some examples:

*Includes 4 aromatherapy votives:
Love Candle
Passion Candle
Sexuality Candle
Purity Candle

*Includes a vile of Rose Essential Oil
*A Positive Affirmation for willing energy and positive thinking into your life.

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Ritual Baths for Empowerment

A ritual is a set of actions, performed for their symbolic value or to reach an outcome. Brushing your teeth or eating breakfast is a ritual. We do them everyday. A ritual bath or magic ceremony involving the use of water to immerse or anoint a subject's body and prepare them to be more aware, conscious and open for new opportunites. It can be used to cleanse the mind, the body, as well as embrace the spirit. Ritual baths can clear negative energies and prepare yourself for accomplishments.

My ritual baths are made with genuine ingredients obtained from historically true magical sources. My formulas are the result of my research with recipes from my mentor and teachers of metaphysical studies, ancient Chinese medicine remedies I have learned and Classical Wiccan practices. These are tried and true bathing rituals I give to my patients and now offer to anyone wishing to improve their life path.

My ritual baths work with the traditional cleansing element of water and infuses a combination of sea salt, crystals, herbs, essential oils and color, which are harmonious with the work to be done. This is a complete system, leaving no stone unturn in its approach to achieving a specific goal!

I have infused all these elements in an extra large tea bag. Simply run your bath water, state the intention provided and add the ritual tea bag to the water. Follow the instructions and enjoy your bath.

Please note: these are serious rituals that work! I have spared no expense in organizing these ancient formulas for all to take advantage of. Your true intention is an important element in the ritual and I hope you honor the process. All these rituals start with two of my mantras: "do no harm" and "be careful what you wish for". I have created over 50 rituals for empowerment. Click the Add to cart link to choose the ones you need most.

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Negative Energy Kit

Whether you are fighting the forces of evil, through the negative thoughts or actions of another, dealing with psychic attack, having a hard time coping with unsettling energies, being burdened by negative emotional patterns or energy vampires... this kit is for YOU!

My Negative Energy Kit has been created with genuine ingredients obtained from historically true and positive sources. My formulas for combating negativity and malicious energies are the result of my work and research with thousands of different case studies. These are tried and true solutions for working against those energies, that wish to suppress our creativity, our ability to grow and our loving spiritual connections! These are the exact same solutions I give my patients and now offer to anyone wishing to improve and protect their life path.

My Negative Energy Kit works with the traditional cleansing elements of water, fire, air and earth as I infuse a combination of negative energy fighting tools including sea salt, crystals, incense, herbs, essential oils, candle and color, which are harmonious with the work to be done. This is a complete system, leaving no stone unturn in its approach to achieving your specific goal!

My Negative Energy Kit was designed to cleanse and clear negative energy from any room, home or large space that needs protection. This kit also includes my ritual bath. I have infused specific herbs, oils and salt in an extra large bath bag. This bath is done to cleanse and protect you.

This kit includes:

- Sweetgrass Incense braid
- Coarse Deep Sea Salt
- 4 of the most powerful Crystals for dispeling negativity.
- 4 Whte Sachet bags
- Power of Intention Signature Candle
- 4 oz. Aura Myst Clearing Spray
- Your Personal Herbal Cleansing Bath
- The Protection Bracelet
- Positive Thoughts and Affirmations
- Complete Instructional Booklet on what to say, what to do, how to do it

This kit comes complete with every element you need to rid yourself and your surroundings of malicious, negative energies and the approach to keep it clear forever!

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Reiki Love Grid Sets

This is a necessity for creating the intention of love, romance and heartfelt desire in your life! Many Energy Workers add the subtle vibrations of stone energy as a complement to their healing sessions or daily lives. Usually this includes the laying on of the appropriate colored stones to coordinate with the Chakra centers, Aura layers, meditating with a particular stone, or wearing the stones as jewelry when the inspiration hits. There are, however, even more uses when stones are set up in a 'Grid' and are properly 'activated'.

A 'Grid' is more simply put, a way to arrange the stones in a sacred geometric pattern. They are then consciously 'activated' by connecting a 'line of Light' between the stones so that they radiate an energy field in the immediate environment in which they are constructed or are essential for distant healing. Our sets have been graciously Reiki-charged and blessed by Dr.Luna Wells.

NOW includes copper conducting energy-grid plate

Copper is considered a strong conductor of energy therefore, increasing the crystals' natural healing powers.

Made by nature, each beautiful set includes 6 select tumblestones or points, 1 center stone, 1 crystal wand, 1 Reiki Grid and Complete Instructions. We have designed several Crystal Grids for specific healing and manifesting.

Rose Quartz Grid-All Forms of Love- 6 Rose Quartz Tumblestones, 1 Rhodonite, 1 Crystal Wand- $55.00
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Amethyst Grid-Spirituality- 6 Amethyst Tumblestones, 1 Clear Quartz, 1 Crystal Wand- $45.00
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Sodalite Grid-Meditation- 6 Sodalite Tumblestones, 1 Amethyst, 1 Crystal Wand- $45.00
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Malachite Grid-Transformation- 6 Malachite Tumblestones, 1 Chrysocolla, 1 Crystal Wand- $55.00
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Quartz Grid-Healing- 6 Clear Quartz Points, 1 Amethyst Point, 1 Crystal Wand- $65.00
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Chakra Grid-Balancing- 6 Chakra-correlated Stones, 7th Clear Quartz, 1 Crystal Wand- 75.00
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Black Tourmaline Grid-Protecting- 6 Black Tourmaline, 1 Hematite, 1 Crystal Wand- $85.00
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Crystal Love Pouches

These pouches are individually filled with several crystals to strengthen and enhance the best energy for each situation. Each suede pouch comes with several crystals and best way to use, cleanse and energize them in order to get what you want out of life!! Choose from:

Love Pouch: Rose Quartz, Rhodonite, Sugilite, Unakite
Luck Pouch: Chrysoprase, Moonstone, Jade, Tiger's Eye
Happiness Pouch: Citrine, Moonstone, Onyx, Quartz
Healing Pouch: Quartz, Sodalite, Sugilite, Turquoise
Money Pouch: Amazonite, Aventurine, Citrine, Tiger's Eye
Protection Pouch: Bloodstone, Carnelian, Hematite, Obsidian
Psychic Awareness: Amethyst, Herkimer Diamond, Blue Agate, Tiger's Eye
Stress: Agate Stone, Amethyst, Quartz, Rhodonite

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Aromatic Love Kit

Discover the many ways these natural mood enhancers can complement any romantic love experience. This sampler is most popular for the changing of the seasons, Wheel of the Year, Birthdays and for creating positive "Rites" in your life... It is recommended for Beltane or Valentine's Day or right now! This set includes:

~ A Crystal Empowerment Love Pouch: Carnelian, Rose Quartz, Rhodonite, Aventurine are used to show us our healing path! It allows us to work on the "love" we need and deserve. They can be used for meditation, casting a circle and healing.

~ The Crystal Elixir perfume oil made with 100% Angel's Mist Essential Oils. This wonderfully scented oil comes in .05 ounce roll-on bottles and contain genuine crystals in vibrationally compatible essential oil blends.

~ Our famous herbal pillar candle scented with fantastic Rose absolute and Geranium essential oils and embellished with "herbal wax" made with rose petals, lilies and bleeding hearts flowers.

~ Rose scented Sea Salt Bath Crystals created from Atacama Desert Sea Salt, rich rose absolut essential oil and naturally colored from crushed rose petals and rose water.

~ Our wonderful Aphrodisiac doop stick incense from India bring the fragrance of myrrh, lotus and rose to heighten your senses.

~ Rose scented incense cones used to "spark your intentions" enhance your mood, honor and bring joy to the space around you.

~ A portable incense holder beautifully bejeweled in reflective glass and beads.

~ Complete Instructions for creating, manifesting and transforming your space into a place of love and sensual allure!

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Color Therapy Kit

Pink and Red are most associated with love and romance! Choose the color you need the most! Choose from: Red, Orange, Yellow, Green, Blue, Indigo, Violet. The Color Therapy Kit includes: Bath Crystals, Essential Bath Oil, Color Therapy Soap and How to Heal with Color. This includes Tips on: Proper Clothes to wear, Proper Foods to eat, Color Balancing Techniques, Astrological Connections and all in a beautifully colored Lucite box!

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These are beautiful, highly polished, faceted pendulums. These crystals are approximately one and one-half inches in length. They hang on a 9" Sterling Silver chain topped with a 4" tassel. The pendulum can be thought of as an extension of the intuition, since it is used to gain access to information that exists at the subconscious level. As an extension of the intuition, the pendulum can give you information from the same two sources as the intuition: from your own subconscious mind; and from your guidance, spirit, or guardian angel. Pendulums are wonderful for healing Chakra work, communication work and making a Choice of any kind!

Each Pendulum comes in a beautiful bag with complete instructions on "how to use" your pendulum and pendulum dowsing, determining yes and no responses, appropriate questions to ask, your pendulum and your health and what your pendulum can be used for.

Amethyst is the stone of spirituality and dream recall. Used for contentment and meditation. Provides common sense and flexibility in decisions. Strengthens and enhances psychic abilities, imagery and mind quieting. Most effective on the Brow and Crown Chakra. Amethyst contains the grounding color of red with the energy of blue, which is expanding, spacious and flow of peace. Amethyst is the color that you see in the sky as twilight transitions into night. Amethyst takes you on this transition from the magic time of dusk to a conscious shift into a different place. Crossing this threshold is the lesson of humility, which Amethyst can teach us. This stone can show us how to let go and trust.

Rose Quartz represents love, beauty, peacefulness, forgiving, lovingness, self-love and emotional balance! Rose Quartz works with the Heart Chakra. It is a soft, gentle, soothing stone that warms the heart center. Its value as a nurturing friend cannot be overstated. Neither can it's soothing influence. Helps diffuse negative stimuli and uncomfortable memories. Helps us discover the ability to love ourselves and makes us more open to other people. It is of particular value in helping us to forgive ourselves, hastening self-acceptance. Helps us realize that all change is important, even difficult change. Stimulates love and tender appreciation of all things.

Quartz is the Master Healer and the "stone of power"! Probably the most versatile multipurpose healing stone. Easy to cleanse, store information/energy in, program or amplify energy and is used as a healing instrument. The natural tendency for quartz is for harmony. Quartz can both draw and send energy therefore it is effective for sending/receiving guidance. Quartz is used for transformation in healing and in all levels of change (mentally/emotionally, physically and spiritually). Quartz stimulates the natural crystal in body tissues and fluids to resonate at the highest healing frequency.

ALSO, see our complete line of crystal pendulums!

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The Deluxe Crystal Gift Set

Stones of Love! Tuning in to any energy is the ability to quiet the mind, allowing your inner self, or intuition, to perceive truth. By practicing this art, we develop a sensitivity toward inner information and the ability to condition our mind to listen on a much more subtle level. This beautiful kit features one of our famous Crystal Healing pouches, 0.5 ounce of Crystal Elixir perfume oil, an energetic, single terminated Quartz Point, a variety of 10 beautifully polished Crystal Tumblestones, Stone and Crystal tips and booklet and a package of natural Sea Salt for cleansing your stones.

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The Deluxe Meditation Kit

Meditation is utilized to strengthen your intentions. Meditation will calm an agitated mind, creating optimal physical and mental health, undo our sense of separateness, which is the common root of fear and misery, unify consciousness, putting us in touch with our higher self and connect us to higher consciousness. Meditation restructures the mind, allowing us to achieve our full potential as human beings. This powerful tool teaches you a life-long discipline granting you the power of self-love and realization. This powerful tool teaches you a life-long discipline granting you the power of self-love and realization.

This beautiful kit features the "How to Guide" to Meditation, a pack of our Sacred Incense, an Incense Holder, an Amethyst Crystal (the "stone of meditation"), our Herbal Pillar Candle and a Meditation Music CD.

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The Deluxe Incense Set

The unbelievable power of exotic scents can align our mind and spirit and help in creating a sensual mood, relieving stress, calming the central nervous system and stimulating our emotional centers. This "scentful" 10 piece set features the "Guide To Working With Incense", a pack of our Sacred Incense Sticks, Sage Incense, Cone Incense, Powdered Incense, Herbal Incense, Feng Shui Incense, A natural seashell vessel, a pack of charcoal, and two different incense holders!

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Metaphysical Sampler Kit

My "positive intentions" kits are one of my top sellers! This sampler gives you several different ways to experience the power of the metaphysical. Metaphysics is defined as the branch of philosophy that examines the true nature of reality, whether visible or invisible. Metaphysics is the philosophical study of being and the "extension of knowing". This gift set includes:

~ A Crystal Empowerment Money Pouch: Aventurine, Tiger's Eye, Citrine, Amazonite are used to strengthen and enhance our best energy around money It allows us to work on the “prosperity” we need and deserve. They can be used for meditation, casting a circle and healing.

~ The Crystal Elixir perfume oil made with 100% Angel's Mist Essential Oils. This wonderfully scented oil comes in .05 ounce roll-on bottles and contain genuine crystals in vibrationally compatible essential oil blends.

~ Our famous Crystal herbal pillar candle scented with fantastic Lavender and Frankincense essential oils and embellished with "herbal wax" made with lavender petals, plumflower and genuine amethyst crystal.

~ Lavender scented Color Therapy Bath Crystals created from Atacama Desert Sea Salt, rich lavender essential oil and naturally colored from crushed lavender petals and plum juice.

~ Our wonderful Myrrh doop stick incense from India bring the fragrance of myrrh, lotus and rose to heighten your senses.

~ Lavender scented incense cones used to "spark your intentions" enhance your mood, honor and bring joy to the space around you.

~ A portable incense holder beautifully bejeweled in reflective glass and beads.

~ Complete Instructions for creating, manifesting and transforming your space into a place of empowerment and light!

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Feng Shui Romanace Pouches

Strengthen the love and romance possiblities in your life! These crystals can be used in any room for a fast and effective way to clear the energy, calm the mind, body, spirit, bring good health, assist in bringing in wealth and for finding help in love and romance. Hold the I Ching coin in your hand as you place one stone in each corner of the room you need help in. Say the positive affirmation that is included in each pouch. This is a great feng shui tool that anyone can use! Choose from:

Love/Romance: 4 Rose Quartz tumblestones, 1 I Ching Coin
Declutter/Clearing: 4 Clear Quartz tumblestones, 1 I Ching Coin
Calm/Meditation: 4 Amethyst tumblestones, 1 I Ching Coin
Good Health: 4 Aventurine tumblestones, 1 I Ching Coin
Wealth/Fortune: 4 Jade tumblestones, 1 I Ching Coin

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Herbal Love Tinctures

These are a combination of herbal extract tinctures blended together for specific situations. We blend the best of single herbs together to create a very potent herbal formula. May we recommend: Circulation Support, Ginseng Energy, Male Power, Mood Support, Passion and Women's Balance

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Love Teas

Tea for Love and Romance! Herbal excitement comes in the form of natural herbal teas combined with the best ingredients for creating a warming, loving, exciting atmosphere! Here are some of our suggestions:

Aphrodisiac Tea - A great mood enhancer and helps to amplify the libido. Increases blood flow through the body and allows a warm sense of stimulation. Blackberry Leaf, Sarsaparilla Root, White Oak Bark, Rose Petals, Siberian Ginseng Root, Muira Puama Root, Elecampane, Dong Quai Root, Marjoram, Licoroce Root, Echinacea, Ginger Root, Damiana Herb.
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Heart Tea - For those who like to keep their heart strong. Dilates the coronary blood vessels, helps lower cholesterol, and restores the heart muscle. Reduces high blood pressure. Also good for bacterial infections, bladder, kidney, and prostate disorders. Hawthorn Berry, Gingko Biloba, Gymnema Herb.
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Love Potion Blend- Bring love to your surroundings by first honoring yourself, then direct your intention to that "special one you desire". This tea is an ancient recipe handed down through generations. The herbs are harvested during the full moon, when intention is greatest! They are then blended in a unique way, which draws out their exceptional powers to create a "potion" worth enjoying! Enjoy pink rose petals, lavender buds, mauira puama, ginger, red clover tops, elecampane, hibiscus and poppies!
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Jasmine Tea, Floral - Jasmine tea is characterized by tea flavor as well as the fragrance of jasmine flower. Top grade Jasmine tea always has enduring fragrance and unforgettable aftertaste. Jasmine tea is made through scenting tea with fresh flower buds. This fabulous "all purpose" tea is full of flavor! Contains caffeine.
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Loving Passion Tea - Stir up the passion of love and romance with this incredible blend of rose quartz and garnet with a blend of rose petals, hibiscus flower, hawthorn berry, damiana root and lavender.
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Sacred Tools for Women Kit

Based on the tantric origins from the Ayurvedic/Indian traditions, these sacred stones of the Goddess are tools for the sensual woman. Andrew's tools are used to awaken the erotic innocence and his pleasure tools and rules are featured in Dr. Saida Desliets' book, Emergence of the Sensual Woman-Awakening Our Erotic Innocence.

Andrew has gathered an assortment of crystals sold in a convenient sensuality kit! This tantilizing kit includes: complete and sexy instructions, (1) medium Shiva Lingam: The True Tantric Stone, (2) varied size crystal eggs, (1) of our famous jade spheres and (2) of our Chinese Ben Wa Balls! (Please note: stone colors and sizes will vary slightly, depending on availability). Also in this kit, 0.5 oz Egyptian Musk: Offering to Goddess Isis sacred oil, sensuous, lubricating Rose Oil and a free download to Andrew's newest ebook "Sensuality Massage -The Art of the Rub".

Deepen and activate your power to explore. It's an invitation to embody what it means to be an erotically alive and compassionate woman. Explore new dimensions of sexuality and consciousness through awakening the erotic innocence of the Feminine. Enjoy better relationships, more vitality and expand your orgasmic potential by cultivating your vital life force (sexual energy).

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Self Love

Self-love is probably the most important love we can do for ourselves AND others. It is very important that we love ourselves, first. When this truly occurs, the Universe allows all things to fall in to place very nicely!

Self examination is the only way to know.

1. To live feeling fully alive is our own choice and responsibility. There are many examples of people living their passions from many different walks of life. These choices re-affirm the love and respect for ourselves.

2. Self-Love is NOT Selfishness. Selfishness is always voluntary, showing regard to our own interests and gratification, which is sought after and indulged at the expense, and sometimes, to the injury, of others.

3. Having the courage and determination to feel good is our personal business.

4. Deciding to feel good, to whatever degree we can manage, is the most important decision that we can make.

5. Spending even a few moments each day doing something that simply delights us, increases our feeling of well-being and makes it easier to do even more of our soul's passion and allows us to find the confidence to love and respect ourselves that much more.

6. The renewal and invigoration received from doing the activities we find absolute passion in, is so vital to the quality and performance in all aspects of the rest of our lives, that without this "fire" for our creative soul's desire, all else positive in our lives begins to diminish and become depressed.

7. When something is so wonderfully important to our overall well-being, it is essential that we pursue it!

8. Self-love can often be found by doing something that brings out the passion in our lives. Doing exactly what it is that makes us happy. When we follow the path that we long to follow, we can always find this love in ourselves.

9. It is this passion, which gives us reason in our lives. It allows us to "see" the reasoning behind why we are here in the first place.

10. Bring your love and light to others by truly loving and respecting yourself, first.

The Triangle Theory of Love

The three components of the Triangular Theory of Love are:


The feeling physically aroused and attracted to someone. Passion is what makes you feel "in love" and is the feeling most associated with love. It also rises quickly and strongly influences and biases your judgment. Passionate love involves continuously thinking about the loved one and also involves warm sexual feelings and powerful emotional reactions.


The feeling close and connected to someone (developed through sharing and very good communications over time). Intimacy is what makes you want to share and offer emotional and material support to each other.


Pledging to your self and each other to strengthen the feelings of love and to actively maintain the relationship. Commitment is what makes you want to be serious, have a serious relationship and promise to be there for the other person if things get tough. Compassionate love is having trusting and tender feelings for someone who is close to you.

Sternberg also uses his Triangular Theory of Love to answer some of the most commonly asked questions about love:

Is there love at first sight?

This is when we are overwhelmed by passion, without any intimacy or commitment (both of which take time). Sternberg calls this infatuated love, Because there is not intimacy or commitment, infatuated love is fated to fade away.

Why do some people get married after being in love for a very short time?

This is a combination of passion and commitment, but without any intimacy. Sternberg calls this Hollywood love. This is where two people make a commitment to each other based on their passion. Unless intimacy develops over time, this relationship most likely will end.

Can their be love without sex?

Ah yes, compassionate love, where intimacy and commitment are present without any sexual passion.

Why doesn't romantic love last?

Passion and intimacy without commitment is Romantic love. When the passion fades, and the intimacy wanes, the relationship ends.

Infatuation vs. Love

Infatuation is instant desire - one set of glands calling to another.

Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager, but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.

Infatuation says, "We must get married right away. I can't risk losing them."

Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. Whenever you are together, you hope it will end in intimacy.

Infatuation lacks confidence. When they're away, you wonder if they're cheating. Sometimes, you check.

Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret, but love never steers you in the wrong direction.

Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time.

Love is the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you - to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by their presence, even when they are away. Miles do not separate you. You have so many wonderful little films in your head that you keep replaying. But near or far, you know they are yours, and you can wait.

Love says, "Be patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence."

Love is not based on sex. It is the maturation of friendship, which makes sex so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can be lovers.

Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. They feel your trust, and it makes them even more trustworthy.

Love makes you feel whole. It completes the circle. It fills the empty space in your heart. Love is elevating. It lifts you up. It makes you look up. It makes you think up. It makes you a better person than you were before. If you have love in your life, it can make up for a great many things you don't have. If there is no love in your life, whatever else there is has a lot less meaning.

The secret of our being is not only to live, but to have something to live for.

Unscientific Answers

Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing, And your voice caught within your chest?
It isn't Love, it's Like.

You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I right?
It isn't Love, it's Lust.

Are you proud, and eager to show them off?
It isn't Love, it's Luck.

Do you want them because you know they're there?
It isn't Love, it's Loneliness.

Are you there because it's what everyone wants?
It isn't Love, it's Loyalty.

Do you stay for their confessions of Love, because you don't want to hurt them?
It isn't Love, it's Pity.

Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand?
It isn't Love, it's being Unconfident.

Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat?
It isn't Love, it's Infatuation.

Do you pardon their faults because you care about them?
It isn't Love, it's Friendship.

Do you tell them every day they are the only one you think of?
It isn't Love, it's a Lie.

Are you willing to give up all of your favorite things for their sake?
It isn't Love, it's Charity.

Does your heart ache and break when they're sad?
Then it's Love.

Are you attracted to others, but stay with them faithfully without regret?
Then it's Love.

Do you accept their faults because they're a part of who they are?
Then it's Love.

Do you cry for their pain, even when they're strong?
Then it's Love.

Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it hurts?
Then it's Love.

But do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and elation pulls you close and holds you?
Then it's Love.

Would you give them your heart, your life, your death?
Then it's Love.

An Anthem of Unconditional Love

"I love you as you are as you seek to find your own special way to relate to the world, or the way you feel that is right for you. It is important that you are the person you want to be and not someone that I or others think you should be.

I realize that I cannot know what is best for you although perhaps sometimes I think I do. I've not been where you have been, viewing life from that angle you have, I do not know what you have chosen to learn how you have chosen to learn it with whom or in what time period. I have not walked life looking through your eyes so how can I know what you need.

I allow you to be in the world without a thought or word of judgement from me about the deeds you undertake. I see no error in the things you say and do, in this place where I am. I see that there are many ways to perceive and experience the different facets of our world. I allow without reservation the choices you make in each moment.

I make no judgement of this for if I were to deny your right to evolution than I would deny that right to myself and all others. To those who would choose a way I cannot walk, while I may not choose to add my power and my energy to this way, I will never deny you the gift of love that God has bestowed within me for all creation, as I love you so I shall be loved, as I sowe, so I shall reap.

I allow you the universal right of free will to walk your own path, creating steps or to sit a while if that is what is right for you. I will make no judgement of these steps, whether they are large or small, nor light or heavy or that they lead up or down, for this is just my viewpoint. I see you do nothing and judge it to be unworthy and yet it may be that you bring great healing as you stand blessed by the light of God.

I cannot always see the higher picture of divine order. For it is the inalienable right of all life to choose their own evolution and with great love I acknowledge your right to determine your future. In humility I bow to the realization that the way I see is best for me does not have to mean that it is also right for you. I know that you are led as I am following the inner excitement to know your own path.

I know that the many races, religions, customs, nationalities and beliefs within our world bring us great richness and allow us the benefit of teachings of such diverseness. I know we each learn in our own unique way in order to bring that love and wisdom back to the whole. I know that if there were only one way to do something, there would need to be only one person. I will not only love you if you behave in a way I think you should, or believe in those things I believe in, I understand you are truly my brother and sister though you may have been born in a different place and believe in another God than I.

The love I feel is for all of God's world. I know that every living thing is part of God and I feel a love deep with every person, and all tree, and flower, every bird, river, ocean and for all the creatures in all the world. I live my life in loving service being the best me I can becoming wiser in the perfection of divine truth, becoming happier in the joy of unconditional love."

-author unknown

Heart Break: The Realization of Our Greatness

Heartbreak is one of the most trying, difficult and hurtful processes we can go through. Heart break is not just an emotional state but can induce real patho-physiologic feelings of pain in the heart. It has been said that the "most sexual organ is the brain and the organ of most intelligence is truly the heart". We often think a lot with our hearts.

Heart Chakra Energy

When the energy of our Heart energy center or Chakra is in balance, we are compassionate, loving, empathetic, altruistic, peaceful, in balance and truly have love for ourselves. When the heart is out of balance in excess conditions, we tend to express issues of co-dependency, poor boundaries with often demanding, clinging, jealous and overly sacrificing tendencies.

When the heart is out of balance in deficient conditions, we tend to become anti-social, withdrawn, critical, judgmental, intolerant of ourselves and others, lonely, isolated and depressed.

Heartbreak has a tendency to put our lives in perspective. Whether it is with the breakup of a romantic relationship or lose of a loved one, we need to take a look with an introspective eye. That is we need to take a reflective looking inward : an examination of one's own thoughts and feelings.

Our Belief System

The strength in our heartbreak really depends on the strength of our belief systems about the relationship. Our mental attitudes and beliefs set up our perspective and expectations. This in turn dictate our relationships. With everything. With our self as human beings, with life, with our friends, family, lovers, business associates. Our attitudes dictate our relationships with our own emotions, with our bodies, gender, and sexuality. Even with our concept of God. We determine in our minds what constitutes success or failure in any relationship.

"As long as we believe that someone else has the power to make us happy then we are setting ourselves up to be victims"

It is important to remember that we are steering the ship. No matter what external situations can happen to you, you have the ability to take control of "how" you choose to look at this situation that has been presented to you.

"Who Am I"

You have now been given a rare opportunity to look at yourself. To observe your true self without any co dependent entities around you. Now is your chance. Who are 'You'? I will not sit here and tell you, "It happens, get over it!" No. It is hard. As seekers of light and love, we take the human traits we formed early in life to use these traits on our journey. The journey we seek is one of a Spiritual journey. We seek to better ourselves, to follow our dreams, to seek out our light that will take us to a higher plain. Depending on our beliefs we discover along our journey the outside influences such as people, places, things: such as money, property, and prestige or external manifestations such as looks, talent and intelligence. These external dependencies or often, co-dependencies can distract us and make us feel better temporarily but they cannot address the core issue - they cannot fulfill our Spiritually journey. They can give us ego-strength but not self-worth. True self-worth comes from accessing the eternal Truth within, from remembering the state of Grace that is our True condition. The real reason we have set out on our journey in the first place.

We Need To Love

For it is Love and the lose of Love which truly allows us the greatest steps in our journey as a Spiritual being. The fact, that you yourself have loved is all that is required.

"Energy Follows Thought"

"With each beat of our heart and every breath that we take, we get a new opportunity to make a choice as to where we want to direct the energy of our lives. Every new moment offers a possibility to open a crack in the door that brings forth the power of the universe. The ever-present "now" is always offering new opportunities to improve our lives. As we verbalize and visualize during our prayer meditation sessions, the now is always turning the present into the past. Scientists have recently determined that the human brain takes an average of three seconds to process and transfer information from reality to memory, to change the present to the past. Each new moment gives us another chance to reevaluate in the light of the present, giving us an opportunity to make new choices and decisions as to what we want to do with our lives. "1

Energy follows thought. Where your thoughts are directed, there is where your energy will go and manifest. Grieving losses are important because it allows us to 'free-up' energy that is bound to the person, object, or experience, so that we might re-invest that energy elsewhere.

Grief and Grieving

Grief is a normal and natural response to loss. Though we often expect to grieve the death of a family member or friend, many other significant losses can also trigger grief.

Examples include:
*The end of a relationship
*A move to a new community
*A much-anticipated opportunity or life goal is suddenly closed to us
*The death of a pet

"Until we grieve effectively we are likely to find reinvesting difficult; a part of us remains tied to the past. Grieving is not forgetting. It is not drowning in tears. Healthy grieving results in an ability to remember the importance of our loss -- but with a new-found sense of peace, rather than searing pain.",

"Sometimes our reactions are so changeable, intense, or irrational that we fear we may be going crazy. Often grieving people are afraid to confront their grief for fear that if they open the door they will be drowned in a flood of tears or rage. Though this is very unlikely, allowing others to help us in our grieving is good 'insurance' that we will keep our balance. No matter what our intense experiences of grief may be they are temporary. There IS life after heartbreak -- if we acknowledge and work through our reactions, rather than trying to stop them." "Fortunately, much of the process of healthy grieving seems to be 'built into' our genes. Acknowledging and growing from losses is such a natural process that much of it will happen without our direction -- if we relax our expectations of how we "should" grieve and give up some of our need to be in control. But healthy grieving is an active process; it is NOT true that, "You just need to give it time." One way of understanding the work to be done is to think of grieving as a series of tasks we need to complete (not necessarily in any order).

Tips To Consider:

*To accept the finality of the loss;

*To acknowledge and express the full range of feelings we experience as a result of the loss;

*To adjust to a life in which the lost person, object, or experience is absent;

*To 'say good-bye,' to ritualize our movement to a new peace with the loss. Good friends, family members, or a personal counselor can all be helpful in doing this vital work. You can also do a good deal to help yourself.

*"Active, healthy grieving requires balance -- balancing the time you spend directly working on your grief with the time you spend coping with your day-to-day life; balancing the amount of time you spend with others with the time you spend along; balancing seeking help from others with caring for yourself."

*Go gently -- take whatever time it needs, rather than giving yourself a deadline for when you should be "over it";

*Expect and accept some reduction in your usual efficiency and consistency;

*Try to avoid taking on new responsibilities or making major life decisions for a time;

*Talk regularly about your grief and your memories with someone you trust;

*Accept help and support when offered;

*Be particularly attentive to maintaining healthy eating and sleeping patterns;

*Exercise moderately and regularly;

*Keep a journal; Write down your lessons. Healthy grieving will have much to teach you.

*Read -- there are many helpful books on grief; (see References). If grief is understood it is easier to handle;

*Plan, and allow yourself to enjoy without guilt, some GOOD TIMES.

*The goal is balance, not martyrdom;

*Carry or wear a linking object -- a keepsake that symbolically reminds you of your loss.

*Anticipate the time in the future when you no longer need to carry this reminder and gently let it go;

*Tell those around you what helps you and what doesn't. Most people would like to help if they knew how;

*Take warm, leisurely baths;

*See a counselor;

*Get a massage regularly;

*Set aside a specific private time daily to remember and experience whatever feelings arise with the memories;

*Choose your entertainment carefully -- some movies, TV shows, or books can only over-intensify already strong feelings;

*Join a support group -- there are hundreds of such groups and people have a wonderful capacity to help each other;

*Plan for 'special days' such as holidays or anniversaries. Feelings can be particularly intense at these times;


*Take a yoga class;

*Connect on the Internet. There are many resources for people in grief and heartbreak, as well as opportunities to chat with fellow grievers;

*Vent your anger in healthy ways, rather than holding it in. A brisk
walk or a game of tennis can help;

*Speak to a member of the clergy;

*Plant yourself in nature;

*Do something to help someone else"

*Find motivating music that will turn you forward and allow you the strength you need.

Remember, moving on takes time, but empowering yourself takes no time. Finding the will to go on is imperative for unearthing the realization of just how great a soul you are and what you still have to offer.

Crystals for Heartbreak and Healing

Here is just a sampling of the some of the best crystals for healing the heart energy:"

Apache Tears:

These stones are said to mend a broken heart and bring good luck to those possessing them. Black obsidian is a powerful Meditation stone. The purpose of this gemstone is to bring to light that which is hidden from the conscious mind. It dissolves suppressed negative patterns and purifies them. It can create a somewhat radical behavior change as new positive attitudes replace old, negative, egocentric patterns.The Apache tears are also said to balance the emotional nature and protect one from being taken advantage of. It can be carried as an amulet to stimulate success in business endeavors. It is used at the Root Chakra for grounding and protection.


This heart stone seems to enable abundance and brings good luck and money, joy, balance and clarity. Universal love, truth and prosperity are traits we can gain by working with Aventurine. This stone is good to have when job interviewing, selling products, or play lotto. This stone helps to stable financial matters, especially when times are tough. Keep it around when paying bills, making business transactions or gambling. It is considered the stone for gamblers. Spiritually, Aventurine protects the heart, enhances creativity and working with spirit guides. Green is the color of healing and Aventurine, as a member of the quartz family, has a concentrated ability to dissolve emotional blockage. It's a particularly effective crystal for emotional healing and is especially helpful when worn for this purpose or placed on the heart center during Chakra balancing. It helps to balance the emotions, and is one of the best stones to wear or carry during stressful periods. It can also be used in crystal layouts when stress is internalized in the solar plexus area. It is also used with stones which have a seemingly more harsh energy. Aventurine is often referred to as the all-purpose healer. This means not only that it is considered by many to be good for physical disorders, but that it is healing on all levels. It helps us to find solutions to life's problems.

Chrysocolla/Gem Silica:

This stone is gentle, soothing, friendly. Excellent for Heart Chakra; flushes and heals heart blocks (loss, hurt, guilt, fear...) for allowingness, flexibility, self-forgiveness, peace of heart, patience. Keeps one in light, love, and healing daily. On Throat, expressing feelings, verbal and artistic creativity, and emotional balance. High conductivity from copper draws out pain, heat (fevers, inflammations, arthritis...), Excellent therapeutic assistance for healing loss, incest, other traumas. Cleanses auric field. Dreams and Earth healing.
A stone found in shades of blue or green. Mined in Mexico, Zaire, Chile, USSR and US. Resembles Turquoise and its properties are similar to it. Benefits arthritis and other bone diseases as well as the organs of the digestive tract, and ulcers become less problematic. Relieves hypertension and stressful conditions due to fear or gilt. Helps one feel more comfortable speaking the truth. Help develop personal confidence. Historically used by musicians, perhaps because of its reputation for having healing properties for throat and lungs.


This stone allows greater flexibility, wisdom, generosity, and self-confidence. Heals depression, excess self-focus, emotions/sexual imbalance. Placed on heart, neck, or on brown for meditation. This stone uplifts the Heart Chakra. It soothes the energy of the heart when you are heart heavy. It therefore brings internal peace, harmony and contentment. This stone symbolizes clarity of thought. It soothes the central nervous system and creates calm. It is a stone that leads its user to new and intellectual approaches. When working with Chrysoprase as a healing stone, it must be laid on the body for a long time. Helps one achieve greater personal insight, feel more calm, become less egotistical, and more open to new surroundings and situations. Stimulates creativity and draws out unknown talents. This stone provides balance between the conscious and the unconscious.


Rich in calcium and calcite, coral brings diplomacy and concurrence, quiets emotions, brings peace to innerself. Facilitates intuition, imagination, visualization, expedite, accelerate the transfer of knowledge. Strengthens both circulatory and bone structure in the body. Stimulates tissue regeneration and nourish blood cells. Helps with disorders of the spinal, alimentary canals, nervous system and thalamus. Different colors of Coral can be used alone, in combination, or all together. Sympathetic to both the skeletal structure and the circulatory system. Good stone for ailments of the bones and blood such as arthritis and anemia. Also benefits the cleansing organs and thymus. Helps battle mental illnesses. Has a true link with the past and can pass knowledge along.


This stone is an important balancer and healer. This rainbow stone opens heart (especially green), Throat Brow, Crown Chakra for clarity, overview, seeing additional truths/realities. Helps one become more aware of the higher levels of reality and can anchor and free one from over-stimulation on the psychic plane. Stills mind and heart, harmonizes and recharges all Chakra. Green Fluorite is a valuable helper in grounding excess energies.


This stone is a powerful, high level stone. It is used against negative energy and empowers positive and loving thoughts. Most effective on the Heart Chakra , it opens the emotional heart and spiritual heart. It represents unconditional lovingness and compassion. Used for healing abuse/loss/addictions. Helps emotional balance, confidence, connection to higher self and oneness. Kunzite is also used on the Brow and Crown Chakra for the reason that it deepens altered states: psychic readings, healing...being centered emotionally and spiritually. Strengthens healers and teachers.

Quartz: "Rock Crystal"

Quartz is the Master Healer and the "stone of power"! Probably the most versatile multipurpose healing stone. Easy to cleanse, store information/energy in, program or amplify energy and is used as a healing instrument. The natural tendency for quartz is for harmony. Quartz can both draw and send energy therefore it is effective for sending/receiving guidance. Quartz is used for transformation in healing and in all levels of change (mentally/emotionally, physically and spiritually). Quartz stimulates the natural crystal in body tissues and fluids to resonate at the highest healing frequency. Quartz works with All Chakra and master gland for balancing, cleansing and healing. It is the perfect stone for complete Aura balancing.

Feng Shui and Romance

Feng Shui (pronounced Fung Shway) is the ancient Chinese art of placement to enhance the flow of "vital life energy" known as Qi. Practitioners believe that rooms, buildings and all environments can be arranged and decorated in a way that maximizes the flow of Qi and resulting in improvements to health and happiness of those who live in that environment. Whether it's finding someone new, enhancing a marriage or building a relationship, The fine Art of Feng Shui can help in your life.

Focus on the Southwest Portion of your Home

The primary direction that governs love, romance and relationships, as well as motherhood, is Southwest. Its corresponding number is two because it takes two to create a relationship; the element is earth; the shape is square or rectangle; and the color is yellow. Perhaps this is why we tie a yellow ribbon to convey a message of love for those from whom we have been separated.

Create a romance area in the Southwest corner of your bedroom. Remove clutter such as piled up books, clothes and items from the corners. Place items in twos such as photos, illustrations, sculptures of you and your loved one; or place items in twos such as candles, crystals, figurines.

Candles and Peonies

If you are single, place two red or yellow candles in this corner. Use hearts, roses and other flowers, but especially peonies. Peonies have always symbolized marriage and fidelity to the Chinese. Arrangements of this beautiful flower are ideal for displaying in your daughter's bedroom or in the hall outside her room to ensure her finding a good partner. If you are married, place peonies in your living room, but not in your bedroom.

Earth Elements

Items from the earth or items made of earthy materials are perfect on a table or shelf in the Southwest corner. Other things you can place here are anything ceramic, terra cotta, clay, porcelain, china, stones, plaster, resin, pebbles or shells from the beach. Basically earth materials, especially crystals, if they are in the shape of hearts, it magnifies their significance. Anything you put out must be in multiples of two.

Chimes and Happiness

"Energy- the strength and wisdom present in the Dragon's Cosmic Breath". According to ancient wisdom, the gentle sounds of chimes will help create a balance of natural energies and attract happiness and good fortune to your home according to the original book of wisdom, the I Ching. A windcatcher at the base can be especially helpful to reflect and refract light, further enhancing the chimes beneficial properties. It is recommended to hang chimes above a door or in the West or Northwest corner of your home. Wind chimes will also cure bad feng shui, as they not only notify you when someone is entering your space, but also disperse bad Qi and replace it with good.

Swarovski Crystal

This magnificent faceted crystal will fill your room with rainbows! Austrian crystals are one of the principal objects used to clear energy blockages in the ancient Chinese art of placement. Place in window or an area where light will hit and refract into beautiful rainbows

Clear Quartz Points

These are thought to amplify both body energy and thoughts. It can assist in the creation of power, clarity of thinking, meditation, cleansing, clearing the aura, spiritual development and healing. Quartz Points are considered the "stone of power". Place two quartz points, two quartz tumblestones, a Twin quartz, two Rose Quartz, two Rhodochrosite, two Rhodonite, or two Aventurine in your Southwest corner.

Consider these relationship Don'ts

Do not install any sort of water feature such as a fountain, pictures of the sea or water images in your bedroom or on the yin side of your front entrance. The yin side is the right side of the door as you face out of your house's front door. To do so is to attract a competitor for your partner's affections into your household, leading ultimately to the possibility of infidelity. The Water element douses the flame of desire and encourages tears.

Do not have pictures of three people in the Southwest corner of your bedroom.

Do not put any wooden or green items in the Southwest area as wood destroys earth in the element relationship chart.

Other directions that can also be enhanced are East (green, wood, dragon, 3); for harmony and family, Northwest (gray/silver, metal, 6); for helpful people and interests outside the home, West (silver/gold, metallics, 7, metal) for teamwork.

Before implementing your Feng Shui measures, concentrate less on finding the right person and focus on becoming the right person with whom someone would want a relationship. Feng shui must be practiced with intention and in harmony with the emotional/spiritual, physical and intellectual aspects of your life.

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Crystals Associated with Love

Crystals, gemstones and minerals have played apart throughout history as ancient relics, symbols of power, wealth and glory and have been given as tokens of affection! Over the centuries, crystals have been given as gifts of love and affection, used in love spells, ground and made into dyes to color ceremonial marriage gowns and utilized as perfume bottles, natural remedies and worn as jewelry. Crystals have a very special place in the subtle energy therapies and a modality I always honor. Here you will find my tribute to "Love Stones", which help to generate self love, affection, romance and beauty!

"Love Stones": Heart Healing and Rhodochrosite

Gentle, yet probably the most vibrant loving stone to heal the Heart, especially for giving/receiving love. This is the "Stone of Love and Balance". Also for loneliness, loss, heartache, fear, insecurities, inner-child issues, abuse, and coping with incest. This stone helps us recognize self-forgiveness, deservingness and trust issues. It is a powerful stone for spiritual and self-love, a desire to live and to help us find purpose. Rhodochrosite has an electromagnetic pulse. Most effective for opening the healing Heart Chakra. It is used in times of transition by providing comfort and support. Helps you alleviate irrational fears and paranoia. Will enhance the dream state.

"Love Stones": Intimacy and Garnet

Intimacy is feeling close and connected to someone (developed through sharing and very good communications over time). Intimacy is what makes you want to share and offer emotional and material support to each other. This is where garnet can help. Intimacy implies the desire to strengthen our moral character in a relationship. It allows us to find and keep, as well as show our best side to others. Garnet stimulates creativity, passion, and the circulatory system. Red garnet stimulates the Root and Spleen Chakra. It is a warming stone and energizes us emotionally and physically. It is also a very grounding stone. Used by ancient cultures to stimulate life force and sexuality, hormone balance, fertility, persistence, stamina, passion, confidence (and stubbornness). This stone is Yang in nature. Red represent passion and helps the wearer to strive for improvement in moral conduct. Garnets teach patience and constancy. They help us develop love and compassion. They sharpen self-perception and extend that openness to others.

"Love Stones": Love, Beauty and Rose Quartz

Rose Quartz represents love, beauty, peacefulness, forgiving, lovingness, self-love and emotional balance! Rose Quartz works with the Heart Chakra. It is a soft, gentle, soothing stone that warms the heart center. Its value as a nurturing friend cannot be overstated. Neither can it's soothing influence. Helps diffuse negative stimuli and uncomfortable memories. Helps us discover the ability to love ourselves and makes us more open to other people. It is of particular value in helping us to forgive ourselves, hastening self-acceptance. Helps us realize that all change is important, even difficult change. Stimulates love and tender appreciation of all things.

"Love Stones": Love, Empowerment and Kunzite

Kunzite is a powerful, high level stone. It is used against negative energy and empowers positive and loving thoughts. Most effective on the Heart Chakra, this pink beauty opens the emotional heart and spiritual heart. It represents unconditional lovingness and compassion. Used for healing abuse/loss/addictions. Helps emotional balance, confidence, connection to higher self and oneness. Kunzite is also used on the Brow and Crown Chakra for the reason that it deepens altered states: psychic readings, healing and being centered emotionally and spiritually.

"Love Stones": Sexual Energies and Carnelian

Sexual relations can be the most intimate and satisfying communication two people experience. Yet sex is difficult for people to talk about, let alone improve, when problems occur. We are all sexual beings. It is important to acknowledge and always celebrate this fact. We are sexual beings so it's natural that we are sexually attracted to others. Carnelian represents confidence, boldness, initiative, dramatic abilities, assertiveness, outgoingness. Precision, analysis, appetite, and awareness of feelings. Used at both the Sexual/Spleen Chakra and Solar Plexus Chakra, this stone warms emotions, passion, sexuality, physical energy, celebration, and the reproductive system. Helps you feel anchored and comfortable with your surroundings. Provides a connection to the past or to historical events. Strongly influences the reproductive organs and fertility. This stone can improve motivation. Helps one achieve greater success in career or personal matters.

"Love Stones": Self Realization with Rhodonite

This Stone of Love symbolizes "self realization". Rhodonite works with the Heart Chakra by soothing the heart center as well as the Root Chakra for grounding and balancing, due to the presence of black oxides in this stone. This balance of colors allows for a powerful and vibration for caring for one's self. Rhodonite allows for confidence and self worth. Helps us express confidence and lovingness on physical plane in day-to-day ways.

Sexy Scents: Essential Oils For Romance

Try something new and different with your lover. Combine the art of massage with the magic of aromatic massage oils. This sensual mix stirs the senses and can send sparks flying between sweethearts. Also try diffusing any one of these oils in the air to spark the senses!

First and foremost, it's important to remember that some smells send certain noses into ecstasy and others into furious twitches. Check in with your partner to find out which scents allure, and which sends their nostrils flaring.

Some sexy essential oil are:

Jasmine: is a bold, sweet scent. Jasmine is the greatest aphrodisiac of all. These night blooming flowers are picked at their hieght to bring out one of the most sexy scents. Associated throughout history with the compassionate Goddess of the Moon, Jasmine, grown along the Nile in ancient Egypt, is represented Isis, the Egyptian Mother Goddess who held the secrets of fertility, magic and healing.

Patchouli: is a sweet, earthy scent. Its smell is intense and spicy. From an energetic point of view, Patchouli, like Jasmine, is warm and yet anti-inflammatory in action. It combines a calmative property with a gentle stimulating effect that uplifts the spirit! Patchouli is a sweet and grounding harmonizing fragrance!

Neroli: is distilled from bitter orange trees. It has a refreshing, spicy aroma and is known for its sensual, exotic effect. Neroil oil is emotionally unifying and soothes with harmonizing effects. Described as both sensual and spiritual, Neroli helps to restablish the link between a disconnected mind and body. Neroli paves the way for a gradual release and allows us to recall hope and joy!

Ylang Ylang: is a rich fragrant oil that means "flowers of flowers". A scent to perfume the body or use for an euphoric massage. Ylang Ylang is relaxing, sexualizing and euphoric. The ecstatic sense of merging is inherent in Ylang Ylang. Like Jasmine, this oil helps to reunite our emotional and sensual natures, aspects of our being that need to contain each other and unite.

Rose: The Mother of All Flowers, the Rose has amazing powers of love, trust and self acceptance. Roses are representative of faith, hope and love and has the qualities to restore the very center of one's being. A gentle tonic of the heart, the compassion of the Rose is seen through it's ability to heal emotional wounds. When loss, rejection or sorrow has injured our capacity for nurturing and self love, Rose oil brings a sweet and gentle comfort, binding the "heart strings" from the Heart to the Mind. Rose oil's psychological properties lie mainly in its effect on the mind, the center of our emotional being. Rose oil calms and supports the heart and helps to nourish the soul!

Choosing a scent is half the fun. Use these oils to perk up any room with natural fragrance. Use them in the bath water for a sexy and romantic experience. Diffuse them in the air in the bedroom. Massage one or two oils into your pulse points at the wrists, neck and tops of the feet. Burn these oils in the form of incense. There are lots of creative ways to work with essential oils!

Andrew's Greatest Love Songs

Music has always played a major part in my life. Ever since those early days of piano lessons with Mrs. Uri or playing trumpet in classical and jazz bands. I always remember the holidays or special occasions when my mom, Andrena, would regale us with wonderful pieces of music such as Malaguena or her own special version of Silver Bells. I have had the pleasure of singing in small and large choral groups from All-state to my own singing quartet group, Free and Easy, as well as, being a charter member of the infamous gospel choir, The Voices of Unity. Music continues to give me life changing moments and memories and I am forever grateful for this art and therapy.

I have been fortunate to always have love around me. I thought it would be a wonderful gift to share the love songs that have made a life long impression. These melodies cross several eras, yet they ring true for me as the indelible mind set and the amazing way love can be expressed in song. I call this list:

Andrew's Greatest Love Songs

1. Right Here Waiting, Richard Marx
2. When I Fall In Love, Nat King Cole
3. Reward, Basia
4. My All, Mariah Carey
5. Every Road Leads Back To You, Bette Midler
6. Baby, Baby, Amy Grant
7. Time After Time, Cyndi Lauper
8. I Will Always Love You, Whitney Houston
9. Forever And For Always, Shania Twain
10. Loving You, Robert Preston
11. Always And Forever, Heatwave
12. My Heart Will Go On (Love Theme From "Titanic"), Celine Dion
13. Whole New World (Aladdin's Theme), Peabo Bryson/Regina Belle
14. Longer, Dan Fogelberg
15. When I Think Of You, Janet Jackson
16. Endless Love, Diana Ross/Lionel Richie
17. Lost In Your Eyes, Debbie Gibson
18. How Deep Is Your Love, Bee Gees
19. Somewhere, My Love, Doctor Zhivago
20. Without Love, Hairspray
21. SomewhereWest Side Story
22. Flying Sequence/Can You Read My Mind, Superman, Soundtrack
23. Songbird, Fleetwood Mac
24. At The Beginning, Richard Marx, Donna Lewis
25. All I Ask of You, Phantom of the Opera

Angels of Love

Archangel Chamuel

Ruler of the Powers, the sphere or level of angelic influence, Chamuel is also considered the ruler of the angels of love who work to harmoniously entice and encourage love throughout the Universe. Chamuel is named as one of the seven archangels in the Book of Enoch, who stand before God and who's name means "He who sees God.". Chamuel is the balance of heaven and earth, which manifests within the human heart. Chamuel grants our deepest desire to give and receive love unconditionally. "To experience love that transcends and transforms the true self, giving love energy to every single reason and purpose, giving lasting benefit and value to all creation."

Cupid (Eros)

Cupid is probably the most famous associated with love! Actually, not an angel, he can be found in Greek and Roman mythology. He has been depicted as a winged Cherub or beautiful young man. A Cherub is an angel or winged creature. I think these attributes are what give him angelic status today.

Cupid (means desire in Latin cupido), in Roman mythology was considered the god of erotic love and beauty. In Latin he is called Amor and is the product of the goddess of love, Venus and messenger of god, Mercury. In Greek mythology he was christened Eros. This mythical creature, because of his powers to rejuvenate the earth with love, Cupid will be forever known in today's mythology as the angel of love. Flitting from one couple to another, spreading whats known as "love at first sight" on any given day, but especially, Valentine's day. Today, Cupid is portrayed as a Cherub with wings, bow and arrows. Cupid represents the love we as humans should have for each other and that love is the ingredient that replenishes each human being as well as the Earth.

Specific Angels

Additional angels associated with love include:

Miniel is the Angel invoked to induce love.

Omael is the Angel of chemistry and species perpetuation.

Rachiel is the Ophanim Angel who rules Venus and governs sexuality.

Rahmiel is the Angel of mercy and love.

Theliel is Angel prince of love.

When asking these angels for help invoking a particular "love intention", consider incorporating the following into your ritual:

Meditations: Love, Compassion
Associations: Venus
Gemstone: Rose Quartz
Color: Pink Rainbow Ray
Chakra: Heart
Essential Oils: Geranium, Lavender
Jasmine, Patchouli, Rose

Herbs: Cardamom, Ginger, Jasmine, Tuberose, Vanilla, Ylang Ylang
Body Healing: Angelic Healing
Mind Healing: Love, Forgiveness and Beauty
Spirit Healing: Self Esteem
Your Angel Reading: Compassion
Angel Meditation: Rose Quartz Meditation

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12. I want to thank many of my friends at the Pacific College of Oriental Medicine and Dr. Ni at SU student center for their help in tips and referencing.

What is your experience with love and relationships? Sharing your own experiences often helps others. We'd love to know in the Peacefulmind Community.

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