Love

Love and all it's divine power can be manifested from within us! We can accept no more love than we are willing to give ourselves. The way we love others, STARTS with the way we love ourselves. Learning how to love ourselves begins with a few easy steps. Want to know more?

Research has shown, that there are three components to love and creating a happy relationship. This theory, developed by Robert Sternberg, is called the Triangular Theory of Love. These components are the fundamental building blocks on creating, nurturing and developing a long-lasting relationship. Want to know more?

There are so many ways to bring love into your life! Discover the difference between Infatuation vs. Love. Learn how to achieve the ultimate goal: An Anthem of Unconditional Love. Are you ready to take The Love Test and The Relationship Test? Get more Sex: A Guide To Good Clean Fun! Without great love, you cannot have Heart Break: The Realization of Our Greatness. Discover Feng Shui and Romance, how to use Crystals Associated with Love, how to work with the power of Sexy Scents and find out What Your Heart Is Telling You? Finding Love and Romance - The Workbook and Journal .

Gifts for Love and Romance

Create Your Own Love Gift This is a fun and easy way to create your own unique gift for the one you adore! Each gift set comes standard with a special message card, a rose scented box with red tissue paper and a sprinkling of rose petals... the rest is up to you! The large gift box comes with your choice of 8 gifts. The small gift box comes with 4 choices of gifts. We offer a variety of products from scent therapy to touch therapy and herbal therapy to metaphysical products. Consider our candles, oils, herbal teas, massage tools, scented potpourri, crystals, energy gifts, chocolates and other aphrodisiacs... all themed around the subject of love! So... chose the gift box you want, then click ADD TO CART. Here you will be given the choices to fill your gift box! Make lovin' fun! Product name: Small Love Gift $59.95 each Add to Cart Product name: Large Love Gift $89.00 Add to Cart * Send a Check or Money Order

Heart Keepsake Gift Box This very special gift of love has been designed just for the holidays! This beautiful red heart-shaped keepsake box is embroidered with delicate Chinese embroidery with a red tassel. This gift set includes: - A puffy Rose Quartz crystal heart. Rose Quartz represents love, beauty, peacefulness, forgiving, lovingness, self-love and emotional balance. This crystal is the centerpiece of the gift set and can be used as a great massage tool! - A box of red rose cone incense. Light these beautifully scented incense to set the mood. Rose Quartz crystal elixir. This perfume body oil comes in a convenient roll on bottle and is a blend of essential oils of rose and geranium with baby rose quartz crystals in this vibrationally compatible elixir. Rose bud scented sachet. A pink sachet filled with scented rose buds makes a great aromatherapy addition to the bath. Add the rose buds to your bath water or place the sachet in your garment drawer. Product Name: Heart Keepsake Gift Box $34.95 Add to Cart * Send a Check or Money Order

Puffy Rose Quartz Heart Translucent to clear Pink. Love, beauty, peacefulness, forgiving, lovingness, self-love, emotional balance. Soft. Gently soothes and warms heart center. Emotional healing, loss, stress, hurt, fear, low confidence, resentment, anger. Slowly eases childhood traumas/neglect/lack of love, low self-esteem. Cleanse and recharge often. Aligns mental, emotional, and astral bodies. Deeply in tune with emotional states. Helps diffuse negative stimuli and uncomfortable memories. Helps us discover the ability to love ourselves and makes us more open to other people. It is of particular value in helping us to forgive ourselves, hastening self-acceptance. Helps us realize that all change is important, even difficult change. Stimulates love and tender appreciation of all things. Advantageous for the heart and circulatory systems. Also helps the cleansing organs. The reproductive organs may become healthier. Said to help increase fertility. Choose from two sizes: Product Name: Small Puffy Rose Quartz Heart (measure 1" x 1" x 1/2") $15.00 Add to Cart Product Name: Medium Puffy Rose Quartz Heart (measure 1 1/2" x 1 1/2" x 2/4") $25.00 Add to Cart * Send a Check or Money Order

Flat Gemstone Hearts Genuine gemstone polished flat hearts bring together the energy of the crystal itself as well as the symbolism of love, passion and compassion that a heart reveals! They fit in the palm of your hand and make a great massage tool! These polished gems are 1.5 inches in size and are featured in Amethyst, Calcite, Fluorite, Hematite, Rhodonite and Unakite Product Name:Gemstone Flat Hearts $19.95 Add to Cart * Send a Check or Money Order

Lapis Heart Lapis brings higher guidance, intuition, connection to higher self, overview, and decisions for the good of all. This heart shaped stone opens Throat/Thyroid Chakra for self-expression, writing, creativity, dream insight, and allows total awareness. Useful for anxiety, restlessness, insomnia, autism, shyness, nervous system, depression, serenity, self-acceptance. Can be used as a protection stone. Shelters the wearer like a shield. A good stone for blood purification and for boosting the immune system. A powerful thought-amplifier and is helpful in aligning all the elements of the body and mind. Can increase psychic abilities and will open the third eye. Can guide you in the direction of mental and spiritual purity. It should be worn as close to the throat as possible or at least above the diaphragm so that the energy of the wearer is drawn upward toward the heart! Each puffy heart measures approximately 1 and 3/4 inches wide. Product Name: Puffy Lapis Heart - $39.95 Add to Cart * Send a Check or Money Order

Create Your Own Kundalini Coil Necklace Kundalini literally meaning "coiled" in Sanskrit, a corporeal energy - an unconscious, instinctive or libidinal force or Shakti, envisioned either as a goddess or else as a sleeping serpent coiled at the base of the spine. Awake this energy with your own creation! These beautiful European silver plated coils can be expanded to fit your most inspirational gem tumble stones! Choose the semi-precious tumble stone you would like in your necklace. Each necklace comes with a silver plated chain. Each stone is unique and no 2 stones are alike. Consider some of our most popular crystals such as: amethyst - spirituality and dream recall aventurine - abundance, good luck, money, joy, balance, clarity bloodstone - raise consciousness, used to calm, ground, revitalize carnelian - passion and sexuality and trauma healing citrine - mental, emotional clarity, problem-solving, memory, confidence, self-discipline fluorite - important balancer, healer, rekindle sexual appetite, heighten intuitive powers hematite - grounding and encourages ones survival instincts, protection, self esteem onyx - balances and grounds, reduces sex drive, promotes fidelity, absorbs intensity rose quartz - love, beauty, peacefulness, forgiving, lovingness, self-love, balance clear quartz - master healer and "stone of power", aura balancing rhodonite - "stone of love", confidence, will power, self worth, dignity sodalite - healing, meditation and wisdom, communication for self and writing, expression turquoise - general healer for all illnesses, friendship, communication, creativity, serenity Don't see the stone you want in your necklace? -Hit the add to cart button -select "choose your own stone" -Go to check out -then under "Special Instructions" write in the name of the stone you wish to have in the necklace. Choose from 2 designs: Coil (horizontal lines) or Spiral (vertical lines). Product Name: Coil Necklace $24.95 Add to Cart * Send a Check or Money Order

Law of Attraction Pendant This incredible hand crafted pendant works with the metaphysical healing power of crystals! Ask, Believe, Receive! The law of attraction works when we first ask the Universe for what we want. We must have faith and believe that we are deserving and know that we are worthy of the request. We now must be open and receptive for our desire to manifest. This pendent contains: Aquamarine and Amethyst, which open the connection to the Universe through divine guidance and intuition, allowing us to ask for and receive information. Emerald, which heals the heart and clears the emotional body. We are now ready to create pure intention allowing us to believe that we are deserving of our request. Pearl, which promotes purity of mind, body, and spirit; opening a divine connection of highest good for all enabling us to receive our gifts with gratitude. The Law of Attraction Pendant is approximately 1.75 inches long. Each Item is individually made, so no two pieces are exactly alike. The Law of Attraction Pendant comes with a black satin cord and information card. Product Name: Law of Attraction Pendant $49.95 Add to Cart * Send a Check or Money Order

Transformational Soulmate Amulet The Soulmate Amulet contains Rose Quartz, known as the love stone. Rhodonite, notorious for springing love into action. Garnet stimulates compassion & love. Amethyst is a conscious healing stone, giving divine love awareness. It is believed that when Rose Quartz and Amethyst are used together, the direction of energy is transformed into awakened consciousness to self-love. When worn, the wearer will initiate a time of nurturing and forgiveness, reprogramming the heart to love itself. 'You are a wonder to my soul, a breath of beauty. Your spirit dances upon my heart, as only two spirits blend into one.' These are very unique, handcrafted stone combinations, each item individually made, so no 2 pieces are exactly alike. Amulets are approximately 1 to 1 1/2 inches in diameter. All amulets come with black satin cord and satin pouch. Product Name: Transformational Amulet $39.95 Add to Cart * Send a Check or Money Order

Empowerment Kits Our Love Kit is our Best Seller! These "Priority of Life" kits are fun, educational, and a reaffirming way of creating positive energy, confidence, and the desire to achieve what you want in life!! It is a cross between a craft project and a meditation for the soul! These are positive affirmation kits that help you to connect, learn and help you get focused. Priority of Life kits are a wonderful "tool" to help you achieve your ultimate goal: BALANCE. Each kit contains the specific ingredients for completing your "Affirmations" and also contains herbs, a candle, essential oil, incense and complete instructions. Each kit also comes with a FREE HEALING CRYSTAL and Beautiful Gift Bag Try our LOVE Kit! Product Name: Priorities Of Life Kit $29.95 Add to Cart * Send a Check or Money Order

Rose Quartz Love Box Rose Quartz represents love, beauty, peacefulness, forgiving, lovingness, self-love and emotional balance! Rose Quartz works with the Heart Chakra. It is a soft, gentle, soothing stone that warms the heart center. Helps diffuse negative stimuli and uncomfortable memories. Helps us discover the ability to love ourselves and makes us more open to other people. It is of particular value in helping us to forgive ourselves, hastening self-acceptance. Helps us realize that all change is important, even difficult change. Stimulates love and tender appreciation of all things. This is a lovely set includes a red embroidered box with a blue embroidered top and red embroidered Chinese Dragon. The box is 3 3/4 inches by 3 3/4 inches. The box contains 5 round polished Rose Quartz, a .05 bottle of Pure Ylang Ylang Essential Oil, 1 pack of Rose Cone Incense, Pink Herbal Magic Votive scented with Pathouli, Clove, Dragon's Blood and Lavender and comes with a Love Affirmation. All in a Silk Chinese Bag. This set is great for doing Grid Work! Product Name: Rose Quartz Love Box - $29.95 Add to Cart * Send a Check or Money Order

Sexy Shiva Lingams Shiva Lingams originate at the Narmada River in the central western part of India, which is one of India's seven holy sites. Accessible only during the dry season, these stones are collected from the river bed. Lord Shiva is the supreme being revered by Hindus, and this fertility stone is often worshipped as his embodiment. Lingam describes the egg-like shape that is hand-polished to balanced proportions. Lingam is the sacred Sanskrit word for phallus. In Tantra, the shape embodies the masculine energy; dynamic expression and knowledge. The markings or Yoni depicts female energy; wisdom and intuition. The Tantric Shiva Lingam unifies the dualistic female/male world into harmonious balance. This Sacred Stone relates to the Heart Chakra and represents the harmony and balance of the soul that is maintained within the hearts of all of us. The Shivas pictured, are approximately 1 1/2 inches in length,(small)$18.00. Approximately 2 1/2 - 3 inches in length (medium)$38.00 and 3 1/2- 4 inches in length(large)$48.00 Product Name: Shiva Lingam (small) $18.00 Add to Cart Product Name: Shiva Lingam (medium)$38.00 Add to Cart Product Name: Shiva Lingam (large)$48.00 Add to Cart * Send a Check or Money Order

Crystal Love Elixirs Love oils and crystals together! These wonderfully scented oils come in .05 ounce roll-on bottles and contain genuine crystals in vibrationally compatible essential oil blends. They are fantastic for Chakra work, energy healing, as an Aura Balancer, as a balancing perfume oil or simply as a "refresher" for your Gem Potpourri. $9.95 Choose from: Moonstone-Love Drawing/Intution: Jasmine, Nightbloom Garnet-Inspiration/Self Love: Rose, Ylang Ylang Blue Topaz-Harmony/Balance: Clary Sage, Lavender Carnelian-Passion/Sexuality: Musk, Patchouli Amethyst Oil-Meditation/Psychic Awareness: Lavender, Sandalwood Aventurine Oil-Emotional Healing/Good Luck: Peppermint, Rosemary Citrine-Awareness/Power: Orange, Lemon Clear Quartz-Enlightenment/Spirituality: Sandalwood, Rose Hematite-Courage/Protection: Cedarwood, Pine Iolite-Truth/Heartfelt: Lavender, Rose Obsidian-Letting Go/Protection: Thyme, Patchouli Peridot-Healing/Wealth: Spearmint, Peppermint Red Jasper-Energy/Grounding: Cedar, Clove Rose Quartz-Heart Awakening/Self Love: Rose, Tuberose Smoky Quartz-Protection/Spirit Lifting: Orange, Musk Tiger's Eye-Money Drawing/Will Power: Sandalwood, Cedar Tourquoise-Friendship/Healing: Lemon, Neroli Product Name:Crystal Elixirs $9.95 Add to Cart * Send a Check or Money Order

Candle Gift Set Collection Our Candle Gift Set Collection is one of our top selling products. The line has been lovingly and mindfully created to celebrate life and it's special occasions. Each collection comes with four square candles uniquely designed with complementary colors and scents, and wrapped with a beautiful illustrative band. They make great gifts for any occasion. Love is a set of 4 candles and scents that are celebrated for their sensory qualities such as Patchouli, Rose, Clove, Lavender, Dragon's Blood, as well as the magical properties that many believe they possess. It includes 2 Love, Spirit and Harmony scents. Product Name: Candle Gift Set Collection $14.00 Add to Cart * Send a Check or Money Order

Candle with Intention When the time is right to visit your sacred space, allow us to enlighten the journey. Each of our herbal magic candles has been designed with a specific intention using a unique blend of essential oils. Each candle comes with an affirmation and inspirational message. Love is a sensory blend of Olive Oil, Patchouli, Rose, Clove, Lavender, Dragon's Blood. Use to attract someone to you. Use in combination with Harmony to find a compatible roommate. Use in combination with Abundance candle to attract clients to your business. Product Name: Reiki Charged Love Pillar $12.00 Add to Cart * Send a Check or Money Order

The Love Votive Set These are Reiki Energy-charged votive candles used for healing, harmonizing and balancing. One of the most beneficial and powerful means of meditation healing is by arranging candles in geometric layouts around yourself or an individual. Geometric energy is applied in the arranging of the candles for specific types of healing. Different geometric shapes will alter and enhance the effects of color and scent. It involves understanding what particular geometric patterns can do by using that particular layout around an individual to heal. Meditating within the center of these configurations, can heighten the entire experience! Here are some examples: *Includes 4 aromatherapy votives: Love Candle Passion Candle Sexuality Candle Purity Candle *Includes a vile of Rose Essential Oil *A Positive Affirmation for willing energy and positive thinking into your life. Product Name: The Love Votive Set- $16.00 Add to Cart * Send a Check or Money Order

Reiki Love Grid Sets This is a necessity for creating the intention of love, romance and heartfelt desire in your life! Many Energy Workers add the subtle vibrations of stone energy as a complement to their healing sessions or daily lives. Usually this includes the laying on of the appropriate colored stones to coordinate with the Chakra centers, Aura layers, meditating with a particular stone, or wearing the stones as jewelry when the inspiration hits. There are, however, even more uses when stones are set up in a 'Grid' and are properly 'activated'. A 'Grid' is more simply put, a way to arrange the stones in a sacred geometric pattern. They are then consciously 'activated' by connecting a 'line of Light' between the stones so that they radiate an energy field in the immediate environment in which they are constructed or are essential for distant healing. Our sets have been graciously Reiki-charged and blessed by Dr.Luna Wells. NOW includes copper conducting energy-grid plate Copper is considered a strong conductor of energy therefore, increasing the crystals' natural healing powers. Made by nature, each beautiful set includes 6 select tumblestones or points, 1 center stone, 1 crystal wand, 1 Reiki Grid and Complete Instructions. We have designed several Crystal Grids for specific healing and manifesting. Rose Quartz Grid-All Forms of Love- 6 Rose Quartz Tumblestones, 1 Rhodonite, 1 Crystal Wand- $55.00 Add to Cart Amethyst Grid-Spirituality- 6 Amethyst Tumblestones, 1 Clear Quartz, 1 Crystal Wand- $45.00 Add to Cart Sodalite Grid-Meditation- 6 Sodalite Tumblestones, 1 Amethyst, 1 Crystal Wand- $45.00 Add to Cart Malachite Grid-Transformation- 6 Malachite Tumblestones, 1 Chrysocolla, 1 Crystal Wand- $55.00 Add to Cart Quartz Grid-Healing- 6 Clear Quartz Points, 1 Amethyst Point, 1 Crystal Wand- $65.00 Add to Cart Chakra Grid-Balancing- 6 Chakra-correlated Stones, 7th Clear Quartz, 1 Crystal Wand- 75.00 Add to Cart Black Tourmaline Grid-Protecting- 6 Black Tourmaline, 1 Hematite, 1 Crystal Wand- $85.00 Add to Cart * Send a Check or Money Order

Crystal Love Pouches These pouches are individually filled with several crystals to strengthen and enhance the best energy for each situation. Each suede pouch comes with several crystals and best way to use, cleanse and energize them in order to get what you want out of life!! Choose from: Love Pouch: Rose Quartz, Rhodonite, Sugilite, Unakite Luck Pouch: Chrysoprase, Moonstone, Jade, Tiger's Eye Happiness Pouch: Citrine, Moonstone, Onyx, Quartz Healing Pouch: Quartz, Sodalite, Sugilite, Turquoise Money Pouch: Amazonite, Aventurine, Citrine, Tiger's Eye Protection Pouch: Bloodstone, Carnelian, Hematite, Obsidian Psychic Awareness: Amethyst, Herkimer Diamond, Blue Agate, Tiger's Eye Stress: Agate Stone, Amethyst, Quartz, Rhodonite Product Name: Empowerment Pouches $24.95 Add to Cart * Send a Check or Money Order

Magic Eye Stone These rare, natural occurrences in the crystal world are the "watchers" of the Mineral Kingdom! Each one is a unique formation that happens in all types of gemstones. Their properties are as special. These crystals are a symbol representing the capacity of human consciousness to see beyond the obvious, or perceive beyond the outwardly visible and tangible; to reach that inner source of life which is the font of divine energy and power. This symbolism says that all human beings who use their discriminative powers, can, in the silence of their inner selves, seek the sanctuary of truth and purity. Magic eye stones have been used in many cultures. An Indian symbol that is represented as the third eye, this stone is often used in Chakra Balancing at the Third Eye position and in Aura Cleansing at the Celestial layer. Product Name:Magic Eye Stone $18.00 Add to Cart * Send a Check or Money Order

Aromatic Love Kit Discover the many ways these natural mood enhancers can complement any romantic love experience. This sampler gives you several different ways to experience the power of the metaphysical. This set includes A Crystal Empowerment Pouch with four crystals that can be scented like potpourri and information on their mood enhancing properties, Crystal Elixir perfume/bath oil, An herbal pillar candle with a Love Affirmation, Rose scented Sea Salt Bath Crystals, Our famous Aphrodisiac stick incense, assorted cone incense and a portable incense holder. Product Name: Aromatic Love Kit $39.95 Add to Cart * Send a Check or Money Order

Color Therapy Kit Pink and Red are most associated with love and romance! Choose the color you need the most! Choose from: Red, Orange, Yellow, Green, Blue, Indigo, Violet. The Color Therapy Kit includes: Bath Crystals, Essential Bath Oil, Color Therapy Soap and How to Heal with Color. This includes Tips on: Proper Clothes to wear, Proper Foods to eat, Color Balancing Techniques, Astrological Connections and all in a beautifully colored Lucite box! Product Name: Color Therapy Kit $24.95 Add to Cart * Send a Check or Money Order

Infinite Love Pendant This beautifully, hand crafted pendant works with the metaphysical healing power of crystals, brings mental clarity, organized thought patterns, and discipline! This stunning pendant necklace helps to invoke a stabile mental picture, strong work ethics and clear thinking. These stones works with our Heart and Crown Chakra. Planetary Influence: Moon, Venus Colors: Pink represents harmony, love Green represents healing, cleansing, love Stones: Rose Quartz is used for love, teaches us to open the heart and love oneself Aventurine helps heal the heart by releasing emotional stress If there are any blockages in the Chakras, applying the correct stones, color and/or light will enable the area to restore itself to its proper functioning. The Heart Chakra is the connection to our heart. It is about giving and receiving love and compassion. Some of the problems associated with the 4th chakra are self-hatred, broken heart, heart and lung disorders. Infinite Love Pendants are approximately 1.75 inches long. Each Item is individually made, so no two pieces are exactly alike. The Infinite Love Pendant comes with a black satin cord and information card. Product Name: Infinite Love Pendant $39.95 Add to Cart * Send a Check or Money Order

Transformational Love Amulet The Love Amulet contains Rose Quartz, Amethyst and Clear Quartz Crystal. Its planetary influence is Venus and Neptune and relates to the Heart, Third Eye, Crown Chakra. When Rose Quartz and Amethyst are used together, the direction of energy is transformed into awakened consciousness to self-love. When worn, the wearer will initiate a time of nurturing and forgiveness, reprogramming the heart to love itself. These are very unique, handcrafted stone combinations, each item individually made, so no 2 pieces are exactly alike. Amulets are approximately 1 to 1 1/2 inches in diameter. All amulets come with black satin cord and satin pouch. Product Name: Transformational Amulet $39.95 Add to Cart * Send a Check or Money Order

Pendulums These are beautiful, highly polished, faceted pendulums. These crystals are approximately one and one-half inches in length. They hang on a 9" Sterling Silver chain topped with a 4" tassel. The pendulum can be thought of as an extension of the intuition, since it is used to gain access to information that exists at the subconscious level. As an extension of the intuition, the pendulum can give you information from the same two sources as the intuition: from your own subconscious mind; and from your guidance, spirit, or guardian angel. Pendulums are wonderful for healing Chakra work, communication work and making a Choice of any kind! Each Pendulum comes in a beautiful bag with complete instructions on "how to use" your pendulum and pendulum dowsing, determining yes and no responses, appropriate questions to ask, your pendulum and your health and what your pendulum can be used for. Amethyst is the stone of spirituality and dream recall. Used for contentment and meditation. Provides common sense and flexibility in decisions. Strengthens and enhances psychic abilities, imagery and mind quieting. Most effective on the Brow and Crown Chakra. Amethyst contains the grounding color of red with the energy of blue, which is expanding, spacious and flow of peace. Amethyst is the color that you see in the sky as twilight transitions into night. Amethyst takes you on this transition from the magic time of dusk to a conscious shift into a different place. Crossing this threshold is the lesson of humility, which Amethyst can teach us. This stone can show us how to let go and trust. Rose Quartz represents love, beauty, peacefulness, forgiving, lovingness, self-love and emotional balance! Rose Quartz works with the Heart Chakra. It is a soft, gentle, soothing stone that warms the heart center. Its value as a nurturing friend cannot be overstated. Neither can it's soothing influence. Helps diffuse negative stimuli and uncomfortable memories. Helps us discover the ability to love ourselves and makes us more open to other people. It is of particular value in helping us to forgive ourselves, hastening self-acceptance. Helps us realize that all change is important, even difficult change. Stimulates love and tender appreciation of all things. Quartz is the Master Healer and the "stone of power"! Probably the most versatile multipurpose healing stone. Easy to cleanse, store information/energy in, program or amplify energy and is used as a healing instrument. The natural tendency for quartz is for harmony. Quartz can both draw and send energy therefore it is effective for sending/receiving guidance. Quartz is used for transformation in healing and in all levels of change (mentally/emotionally, physically and spiritually). Quartz stimulates the natural crystal in body tissues and fluids to resonate at the highest healing frequency. ALSO, see our complete line of crystal pendulums! Product Name: Quartz Pendulum $19.95 Add to Cart Product Name: Rose Quartz Pendulum $24.95 Add to Cart Product Name: Amethyst Pendulum $29.95 Add to Cart * Send a Check or Money Order

The Deluxe Crystal Gift Set Stones of Love! Tuning in to any energy is the ability to quiet the mind, allowing your inner self, or intuition, to perceive truth. By practicing this art, we develop a sensitivity toward inner information and the ability to condition our mind to listen on a much more subtle level. This beautiful kit features one of our famous Crystal Healing pouches, 0.5 ounce of Crystal Elixir perfume oil, an energetic, single terminated Quartz Point, a variety of 10 beautifully polished Crystal Tumblestones, Stone and Crystal tips and booklet and a package of natural Sea Salt for cleansing your stones. Product Name:The Deluxe Crystal Gift Set $39.95 Add to Cart * Send a Check or Money Order

The Deluxe Meditation Kit Meditation is utilized to strengthen your intentions. Meditation will calm an agitated mind, creating optimal physical and mental health, undo our sense of separateness, which is the common root of fear and misery, unify consciousness, putting us in touch with our higher self and connect us to higher consciousness. Meditation restructures the mind, allowing us to achieve our full potential as human beings. This powerful tool teaches you a life-long discipline granting you the power of self-love and realization. This powerful tool teaches you a life-long discipline granting you the power of self-love and realization. This beautiful kit features the "How to Guide" to Meditation, a pack of our Sacred Incense, an Incense Holder, an Amethyst Crystal (the "stone of meditation"), our Herbal Pillar Candle and a Meditation Music CD. Product Name:The Meditation Kit $35.00 Add to Cart * Send a Check or Money Order

The Deluxe Incense Set The unbelievable power of exotic scents can align our mind and spirit and help in creating a sensual mood, relieving stress, calming the central nervous system and stimulating our emotional centers. This "scentful" 10 piece set features the "Guide To Working With Incense", a pack of our Sacred Incense Sticks, Sage Incense, Cone Incense, Powdered Incense, Herbal Incense, Feng Shui Incense, A natural seashell vessel, a pack of charcoal, and two different incense holders! Product Name:The Deluxe Incense Set $28.50 Add to Cart * Send a Check or Money Order

The Love Metaphysical Sampler This beautiful gift set includes 2 varieties of Incense, an Incense Holder, one of our famous Crystal Healing Pouch and properties, one 0.5 ounce bottle of Crystal Elixir perfume oil, Herbal Candle with affirmation and Color Therapy bath salts. Product Name: Metaphysical Basket $39.00 Add to Cart * Send a Check or Money Order

Feng Shui Romanace Pouches Strengthen the love and romance possiblities in your life! These crystals can be used in any room for a fast and effective way to clear the energy, calm the mind, body, spirit, bring good health, assist in bringing in wealth and for finding help in love and romance. Hold the I Ching coin in your hand as you place one stone in each corner of the room you need help in. Say the positive affirmation that is included in each pouch. This is a great feng shui tool that anyone can use! Choose from: Love/Romance: 4 Rose Quartz tumblestones, 1 I Ching Coin Declutter/Clearing: 4 Clear Quartz tumblestones, 1 I Ching Coin Calm/Meditation: 4 Amethyst tumblestones, 1 I Ching Coin Good Health: 4 Aventurine tumblestones, 1 I Ching Coin Wealth/Fortune: 4 Jade tumblestones, 1 I Ching Coin Product name: Feng Shui Empowerment Pouches $29.95 Add to Cart * Send a Check or Money Order

Herbal Love Tinctures These are a combination of herbal extract tinctures blended together for specific situations. We blend the best of single herbs together to create a very potent herbal formula. May we recommend: Circulation Support, Ginseng Energy, Male Power, Mood Support, Passion and Women's Balance Product Name: Herbal Extract Combinations- 2oz bottles $21.00 Add to Cart * Send a Check or Money Order

Love Teas Tea for Love and Romance! Herbal excitement comes in the form of natural herbal teas combined with the best ingredients for creating a warming, loving, exciting atmosphere! Here are some of our suggestions: Aphrodisiac Tea A great mood enhancer and helps to amplify the libido. Increases blood flow through the body and allows a warm sense of stimulation. Damiana, Rosehips, Gota Kola, Ginko, Shiazandra Beny, Murita Punanma Root, Yohimbe, Sasparilla, Siberian Ginseng, Stevia. Order Info Energy Tea No caffeine. Provides important vitamins and minerals. Increase blood flow, circulation, and oxygenation. Decreases fatigue and depression by stimulating the nervous system. Blackberry Leaf, Sarsaparilla Root, Siberian Ginseng Root, Muira Puama, Ginger Root, Roasted Chicory Root, Roasted Dandelion Root, Guarana Root. Order Info Female Balance Tea Helps restore balance to hormones, estrogen and nourish the female system! Builds the reproductive system. Chase Tree Berry, Schizandra, Fo-Ti, Rosebuds, Nettle, Red Raspberry, Peppermint, Strawberry Leaf, Blessed Thistle, Stevia. Order Info Ceylon Orange Pekoe Tea- Ceylon tea comes from partially fermenting young tea leaves and is revered as a lively classic with a smooth taste that is not too bitter to the palate. It makes a very nice afternoon tea and works great with snacks. A very robust and fragrant tea blend sure to give you pleasure! Contains caffeine. Order Info Jasmine Tea, Floral - Jasmine tea is characterized by tea flavor as well as the fragrance of jasmine flower. Top grade Jasmine tea always has enduring fragrance and unforgettable aftertaste. Jasmine tea is made through scenting tea with fresh flower buds. This fabulous "all purpose" tea is full of flavor! Contains caffeine. Order Info Love Potion Blend- This special tea is apart of our Metaphysical Tea collection! Bring love to your surroundings by first honoring yourself, then direct your intention to that "special one you desire". This tea is an ancient recipe handed down through generations. The herbs are harvested during the full moon, when intention is greatest! They are then blended in a unique way, which draws out their exceptional powers to create a "potion" worth enjoying! Enjoy pink rose petals, lavender buds, mauira puama, ginger, red clover tops, elecampane, hibiscus and poppies! Order Info Male Balance Tea Stimulating mixture of herbs and minerals. Builds vital energy. Strengthens the adrenal and reproductive glands. Useful in circulatory problems, diabetes, lack of energy, and stress. 4 Ginsengs including Suma Pata, Iotal, Horse Chestnut, Muria Punama, Schizandra Berry, Hawthorn Berry. Order Info

ORDER INFO **FREE TEA INFUSER BALL** with 1 lb tea purchase!! These medicinal health blends of nature's most appropriate herbs are combined to make these tea blends just right! Our delightful teas are sold in 4 oz. or 1 lb blends. Product Name: Herbal Tea 4oz. $8.95 Add to Cart Product Name: Herbal Tea 1 lb. $28.95 Add to Cart * Send a Check or Money Order

Self Love

Self-love is probably the most important love we can do for ourselves AND others. It is very important that we love ourselves, first. When this truly occurs, the Universe allows all things to fall in to place very nicely!

Self examination is the only way to know.

1. To live feeling fully alive is our own choice and responsibility. There are many examples of people living their passions from many different walks of life. These choices re-affirm the love and respect for ourselves.

2. Self-Love is NOT Selfishness. Selfishness is always voluntary, showing regard to our own interests and gratification, which is sought after and indulged at the expense, and sometimes, to the injury, of others.

3. Having the courage and determination to feel good is our personal business.

4. Deciding to feel good, to whatever degree we can manage, is the most important decision that we can make.

5. Spending even a few moments each day doing something that simply delights us, increases our feeling of well-being and makes it easier to do even more of our soul's passion and allows us to find the confidence to love and respect ourselves that much more.

6. The renewal and invigoration received from doing the activities we find absolute passion in, is so vital to the quality and performance in all aspects of the rest of our lives, that without this "fire" for our creative soul's desire, all else positive in our lives begins to diminish and become depressed.

7. When something is so wonderfully important to our overall well-being, it is essential that we pursue it!

8. Self-love can often be found by doing something that brings out the passion in our lives. Doing exactly what it is that makes us happy. When we follow the path that we long to follow, we can always find this love in ourselves.

9. It is this passion, which gives us reason in our lives. It allows us to "see" the reasoning behind why we are here in the first place.

10. Bring your love and light to others by truly loving and respecting yourself, first.

The Triangle Theory of Love

The three components of the Triangular Theory of Love are:

Passion:

The feeling physically aroused and attracted to someone. Passion is what makes you feel "in love" and is the feeling most associated with love. It also rises quickly and strongly influences and biases your judgment. Passionate love involves continuously thinking about the loved one and also involves warm sexual feelings and powerful emotional reactions.

Intimacy:

The feeling close and connected to someone (developed through sharing and very good communications over time). Intimacy is what makes you want to share and offer emotional and material support to each other.

Commitment:

Pledging to your self and each other to strengthen the feelings of love and to actively maintain the relationship. Commitment is what makes you want to be serious, have a serious relationship and promise to be there for the other person if things get tough. Compassionate love is having trusting and tender feelings for someone who is close to you.

Sternberg also uses his Triangular Theory of Love to answer some of the most commonly asked questions about love:

Is there love at first sight?

This is when we are overwhelmed by passion, without any intimacy or commitment (both of which take time). Sternberg calls this infatuated love, Because there is not intimacy or commitment, infatuated love is fated to fade away.

Why do some people get married after being in love for a very short time?

This is a combination of passion and commitment, but without any intimacy. Sternberg calls this Hollywood love. This is where two people make a commitment to each other based on their passion. Unless intimacy develops over time, this relationship most likely will end.

Can their be love without sex?

Ah yes, compassionate love, where intimacy and commitment are present without any sexual passion.

Why doesn't romantic love last?

Passion and intimacy without commitment is Romantic love. When the passion fades, and the intimacy wanes, the relationship ends.

Infatuation vs. Love

Infatuation is instant desire - one set of glands calling to another.

Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager, but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.

Infatuation says, "We must get married right away. I can't risk losing them."

Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. Whenever you are together, you hope it will end in intimacy.

Infatuation lacks confidence. When they're away, you wonder if they're cheating. Sometimes, you check.

Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret, but love never steers you in the wrong direction.

Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time.

Love is the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you - to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by their presence, even when they are away. Miles do not separate you. You have so many wonderful little films in your head that you keep replaying. But near or far, you know they are yours, and you can wait.

Love says, "Be patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence."

Love is not based on sex. It is the maturation of friendship, which makes sex so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can be lovers.

Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. They feel your trust, and it makes them even more trustworthy.

Love makes you feel whole. It completes the circle. It fills the empty space in your heart. Love is elevating. It lifts you up. It makes you look up. It makes you think up. It makes you a better person than you were before. If you have love in your life, it can make up for a great many things you don't have. If there is no love in your life, whatever else there is has a lot less meaning.

The secret of our being is not only to live, but to have something to live for.

Unscientific Answers

Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing, And your voice caught within your chest?
It isn't Love, it's Like.

You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I right?
It isn't Love, it's Lust.

Are you proud, and eager to show them off?
It isn't Love, it's Luck.

Do you want them because you know they're there?
It isn't Love, it's Loneliness.

Are you there because it's what everyone wants?
It isn't Love, it's Loyalty.

Do you stay for their confessions of Love, because you don't want to hurt them?
It isn't Love, it's Pity.

Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand?
It isn't Love, it's being Unconfident.

Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat?
It isn't Love, it's Infatuation.

Do you pardon their faults because you care about them?
It isn't Love, it's Friendship.

Do you tell them every day they are the only one you think of?
It isn't Love, it's a Lie.

Are you willing to give up all of your favorite things for their sake?
It isn't Love, it's Charity.

Does your heart ache and break when they're sad?
Then it's Love.

Are you attracted to others, but stay with them faithfully without regret?
Then it's Love.

Do you accept their faults because they're a part of who they are?
Then it's Love.

Do you cry for their pain, even when they're strong?
Then it's Love.

Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it hurts?
Then it's Love.

But do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and elation pulls you close and holds you?
Then it's Love.

Would you give them your heart, your life, your death?
Then it's Love.

An Anthem of Unconditional Love

"I love you as you are as you seek to find your own special way to relate to the world, or the way you feel that is right for you. It is important that you are the person you want to be and not someone that I or others think you should be.

I realize that I cannot know what is best for you although perhaps sometimes I think I do. I've not been where you have been, viewing life from that angle you have, I do not know what you have chosen to learn how you have chosen to learn it with whom or in what time period. I have not walked life looking through your eyes so how can I know what you need.

I allow you to be in the world without a thought or word of judgement from me about the deeds you undertake. I see no error in the things you say and do, in this place where I am. I see that there are many ways to perceive and experience the different facets of our world. I allow without reservation the choices you make in each moment.

I make no judgement of this for if I were to deny your right to evolution than I would deny that right to myself and all others. To those who would choose a way I cannot walk, while I may not choose to add my power and my energy to this way, I will never deny you the gift of love that God has bestowed within me for all creation, as I love you so I shall be loved, as I sowe, so I shall reap.

I allow you the universal right of free will to walk your own path, creating steps or to sit a while if that is what is right for you. I will make no judgement of these steps, whether they are large or small, nor light or heavy or that they lead up or down, for this is just my viewpoint. I see you do nothing and judge it to be unworthy and yet it may be that you bring great healing as you stand blessed by the light of God.

I cannot always see the higher picture of divine order. For it is the inalienable right of all life to choose their own evolution and with great love I acknowledge your right to determine your future. In humility I bow to the realization that the way I see is best for me does not have to mean that it is also right for you. I know that you are led as I am following the inner excitement to know your own path.

I know that the many races, religions, customs, nationalities and beliefs within our world bring us great richness and allow us the benefit of teachings of such diverseness. I know we each learn in our own unique way in order to bring that love and wisdom back to the whole. I know that if there were only one way to do something, there would need to be only one person. I will not only love you if you behave in a way I think you should, or believe in those things I believe in, I understand you are truly my brother and sister though you may have been born in a different place and believe in another God than I.

The love I feel is for all of God's world. I know that every living thing is part of God and I feel a love deep with every person, and all tree, and flower, every bird, river, ocean and for all the creatures in all the world. I live my life in loving service being the best me I can becoming wiser in the perfection of divine truth, becoming happier in the joy of unconditional love."

-author unknown

Heart Break: The Realization of Our Greatness

Heart Chakra Energy

When the energy of our Heart energy center or Chakra is in balance, we are compassionate, loving, empathetic, altruistic, peaceful, in balance and truly have love for ourselves. When the heart is out of balance in excess conditions, we tend to express issues of co-dependency, poor boundaries with often demanding, clinging, jealous and overly sacrificing tendencies.

When the heart is out of balance in deficient conditions, we tend to become anti-social, withdrawn, critical, judgmental, intolerant of ourselves and others, lonely, isolated and depressed.

Heartbreak has a tendency to put our lives in perspective. Whether it is with the breakup of a romantic relationship or lose of a loved one, we need to take a look with an introspective eye. That is we need to take a reflective looking inward : an examination of one's own thoughts and feelings.

Our Belief System

The strength in our heartbreak really depends on the strength of our belief systems about the relationship. Our mental attitudes and beliefs set up our perspective and expectations. This in turn dictate our relationships. With everything. With our self as human beings, with life, with our friends, family, lovers, business associates. Our attitudes dictate our relationships with our own emotions, with our bodies, gender, and sexuality. Even with our concept of God. We determine in our minds what constitutes success or failure in any relationship.

"As long as we believe that someone else has the power to make us happy then we are setting ourselves up to be victims"

It is important to remember that we are steering the ship. No matter what external situations can happen to you, you have the ability to take control of "how" you choose to look at this situation that has been presented to you.

"Who Am I"

You have now been given a rare opportunity to look at yourself. To observe your true self without any co dependent entities around you. Now is your chance. Who are 'You'? I will not sit here and tell you, "It happens, get over it!" No. It is hard. As seekers of light and love, we take the human traits we formed early in life to use these traits on our journey. The journey we seek is one of a Spiritual journey. We seek to better ourselves, to follow our dreams, to seek out our light that will take us to a higher plain. Depending on our beliefs we discover along our journey the outside influences such as people, places, things: such as money, property, and prestige or external manifestations such as looks, talent and intelligence. These external dependencies or often, co-dependencies can distract us and make us feel better temporarily but they cannot address the core issue - they cannot fulfill our Spiritually journey. They can give us ego-strength but not self-worth. True self-worth comes from accessing the eternal Truth within, from remembering the state of Grace that is our True condition. The real reason we have set out on our journey in the first place.

We Need To Love

For it is Love and the lose of Love which truly allows us the greatest steps in our journey as a Spiritual being. The fact, that you yourself have loved is all that is required.

"Energy Follows Thought"

"With each beat of our heart and every breath that we take, we get a new opportunity to make a choice as to where we want to direct the energy of our lives. Every new moment offers a possibility to open a crack in the door that brings forth the power of the universe. The ever-present "now" is always offering new opportunities to improve our lives. As we verbalize and visualize during our prayer meditation sessions, the now is always turning the present into the past. Scientists have recently determined that the human brain takes an average of three seconds to process and transfer information from reality to memory, to change the present to the past. Each new moment gives us another chance to reevaluate in the light of the present, giving us an opportunity to make new choices and decisions as to what we want to do with our lives. "1

Energy follows thought. Where your thoughts are directed, there is where your energy will go and manifest. Grieving losses are important because it allows us to 'free-up' energy that is bound to the person, object, or experience, so that we might re-invest that energy elsewhere.

Grief and Grieving

Grief is a normal and natural response to loss. Though we often expect to grieve the death of a family member or friend, many other significant losses can also trigger grief.

Examples include:
*The end of a relationship
*A move to a new community
*A much-anticipated opportunity or life goal is suddenly closed to us
*The death of a pet

"Until we grieve effectively we are likely to find reinvesting difficult; a part of us remains tied to the past. Grieving is not forgetting. It is not drowning in tears. Healthy grieving results in an ability to remember the importance of our loss -- but with a new-found sense of peace, rather than searing pain.",

"Sometimes our reactions are so changeable, intense, or irrational that we fear we may be going crazy. Often grieving people are afraid to confront their grief for fear that if they open the door they will be drowned in a flood of tears or rage. Though this is very unlikely, allowing others to help us in our grieving is good 'insurance' that we will keep our balance. No matter what our intense experiences of grief may be they are temporary. There IS life after heartbreak -- if we acknowledge and work through our reactions, rather than trying to stop them." "Fortunately, much of the process of healthy grieving seems to be 'built into' our genes. Acknowledging and growing from losses is such a natural process that much of it will happen without our direction -- if we relax our expectations of how we "should" grieve and give up some of our need to be in control. But healthy grieving is an active process; it is NOT true that, "You just need to give it time." One way of understanding the work to be done is to think of grieving as a series of tasks we need to complete (not necessarily in any order).

Tips To Consider:

*To accept the finality of the loss;

*To acknowledge and express the full range of feelings we experience as a result of the loss;

*To adjust to a life in which the lost person, object, or experience is absent;

*To 'say good-bye,' to ritualize our movement to a new peace with the loss. Good friends, family members, or a personal counselor can all be helpful in doing this vital work. You can also do a good deal to help yourself.

*"Active, healthy grieving requires balance -- balancing the time you spend directly working on your grief with the time you spend coping with your day-to-day life; balancing the amount of time you spend with others with the time you spend along; balancing seeking help from others with caring for yourself."

*Go gently -- take whatever time it needs, rather than giving yourself a deadline for when you should be "over it";

*Expect and accept some reduction in your usual efficiency and consistency;

*Try to avoid taking on new responsibilities or making major life decisions for a time;

*Talk regularly about your grief and your memories with someone you trust;

*Accept help and support when offered;

*Be particularly attentive to maintaining healthy eating and sleeping patterns;

*Exercise moderately and regularly;

*Keep a journal; Write down your lessons. Healthy grieving will have much to teach you.

*Read -- there are many helpful books on grief; (see References). If grief is understood it is easier to handle;

*Plan, and allow yourself to enjoy without guilt, some GOOD TIMES.

*The goal is balance, not martyrdom;

*Carry or wear a linking object -- a keepsake that symbolically reminds you of your loss.

*Anticipate the time in the future when you no longer need to carry this reminder and gently let it go;

*Tell those around you what helps you and what doesn't. Most people would like to help if they knew how;

*Take warm, leisurely baths;

*See a counselor;

*Get a massage regularly;

*Set aside a specific private time daily to remember and experience whatever feelings arise with the memories;

*Choose your entertainment carefully -- some movies, TV shows, or books can only over-intensify already strong feelings;

*Join a support group -- there are hundreds of such groups and people have a wonderful capacity to help each other;

*Plan for 'special days' such as holidays or anniversaries. Feelings can be particularly intense at these times;

*Pray;

*Take a yoga class;

*Connect on the Internet. There are many resources for people in grief and heartbreak, as well as opportunities to chat with fellow grievers;

*Vent your anger in healthy ways, rather than holding it in. A brisk
walk or a game of tennis can help;

*Speak to a member of the clergy;

*Plant yourself in nature;

*Do something to help someone else"

*Find motivating music that will turn you forward and allow you the strength you need.

Remember, moving on takes time, but empowering yourself takes no time. Finding the will to go on is imperative for unearthing the realization of just how great a soul you are and what you still have to offer.

Crystals for Heartbreak and Healing

Here is just a sampling of the some of the best crystals for healing the heart energy:

Apache Tears

The stones are said to bring good luck to those possessing them. Black obsidian is a powerful Meditation stone. The purpose of this gemstone is to bring to light that which is hidden from the conscious mind. It dissolves suppressed negative patterns and purifies them. It can create a somewhat radical behavior change as new positive attitudes replace old, negative, egocentric patterns.The Apache tears are also said to balance the emotional nature and protect one from being taken advantage of. It can be carried as an amulet to stimulate success in business endeavors. It is used at the Root Chakra for grounding and protection. Eases and releases pain, loss, sadness, anger, to help heal and go on with life. For looking within, protection, vision quest/purpose. Gently grounds and unblocks lower body and endocrine glands/Chakra. Helps healing.

Aventurine

Aventurine seems to enable abundance and brings good luck and money, joy, balance and clarity. Universal love, truth and prosperity are traits we can gain by working with Aventurine. Spiritually, Aventurine protects the heart, enhances creativity and working with spirit guides. Green is the color of healing and Aventurine, as a member of the quartz family, has a concentrated ability to dissolve emotional blockage. It's a particularly effective crystal for emotional healing and is especially helpful when worn for this purpose or placed on the heart center during Chakra balancing. It helps to balance the emotions, and is one of the best stones to wear or carry during stressful periods.

Chrysocolla/Gem Silica

Gentle, soothing, friendly. Excellent for Heart Chakra; flushes and heals heart blocks (loss, hurt, guilt, fear...) for allowingness, flexibility, self-forgiveness, peace of heart, patience. Keeps one in light, love, and healing daily. On Throat, expressing feelings, verbal and artistic creativity, thyroid. Also, heart blood sugar, and emotional balance. High conductivity from copper draws out pain, heat (fevers, inflammations, arthritis...), Excellent therapeutic assistance for healing loss, incest, other traumas. Cleanses auric field. Dreams and Earth healing.

Chrysoprase

Uplifts the Heart Chakra. Greater flexibility, wisdom, generosity, self-confidence. Heals depression, excess self-focus, emotions/sexual imbalance. Placed on heart, neck, or on brown for meditation. Helps one achieve greater personal insight, feel more clam, become less egotistical, and more open to new surroundings and situations. Stimulates creativity and draws out unknown talents.

Coral

Coral brings diplomacy and concurrence, quiets emotions, brings peace to inner self. Facilitates intuition, imagination, visualization, expedite, accelerate the transfer of knowledge. Strengthens both circulatory and bone structure in the body. Different colors of Coral can be used alone, in combination, or all together. Sympathetic to both the skeletal structure and the circulatory system. Has a true link with the past and can pass knowledge along.

Fluorite

Important balancer, healer. Opens heart (especially green), Throat Brow, Crown Chakra for clarity, overview, seeing additional truths/realities. Helps one become more aware of the higher levels of reality and can anchor and free one from over-stimulation on the psychic plane. Stills mind and heart, harmonizes and recharges all Chakra. Green Fluorite is a valuable helper in grounding excess energies.

Kunzite

Kunzite is a powerful, high level stone. It is used against negative energy and empowers positive and loving thoughts. Most effective on the Heart Chakra , it opens the emotional heart and spiritual heart. It represents unconditional lovingness and compassion. Used for healing abuse/loss/addictions. Helps emotional balance, confidence, connection to higher self and oneness. Kunzite is also used on the Brow and Crown Chakra for the reason that it deepens altered states: psychic readings, healing...being centered emotionally and spiritually. Strengthens healers and teachers. A soothing stone that can help you adjust to the pressures of modern life.

Quartz

Quartz is the Master Healer and the "stone of power"! Probably the most versatile multipurpose healing stone. Easy to cleanse, store information/energy in, program or amplify energy and is used as a healing instrument. The natural tendency for quartz is for harmony. Quartz can both draw and send energy therefore it is effective for sending/receiving guidance. Quartz is used for transformation in healing and in all levels of change (mentally/emotionally, physically and spiritually). Quartz stimulates the natural crystal in body tissues and fluids to resonate at the highest healing frequency. Quartz works with All Chakra and master gland for balancing, cleansing and healing. It is the perfect stone for complete Aura balancing.

Feng Shui and Romance

Feng Shui (pronounced Fung Shway) is the ancient Chinese art of placement to enhance the flow of "vital life energy" known as Qi. Practitioners believe that rooms, buildings and all environments can be arranged and decorated in a way that maximizes the flow of Qi and resulting in improvements to health and happiness of those who live in that environment. Whether it's finding someone new, enhancing a marriage or building a relationship, The fine Art of Feng Shui can help in your life.

Focus on the Southwest Portion of your Home

The primary direction that governs love, romance and relationships, as well as motherhood, is Southwest. Its corresponding number is two because it takes two to create a relationship; the element is earth; the shape is square or rectangle; and the color is yellow. Perhaps this is why we tie a yellow ribbon to convey a message of love for those from whom we have been separated.

Create a romance area in the Southwest corner of your bedroom. Remove clutter such as piled up books, clothes and items from the corners. Place items in twos such as photos, illustrations, sculptures of you and your loved one; or place items in twos such as candles, crystals, figurines.

Candles and Peonies

If you are single, place two red or yellow candles in this corner. Use hearts, roses and other flowers, but especially peonies. Peonies have always symbolized marriage and fidelity to the Chinese. Arrangements of this beautiful flower are ideal for displaying in your daughter's bedroom or in the hall outside her room to ensure her finding a good partner. If you are married, place peonies in your living room, but not in your bedroom.

Earth Elements

Items from the earth or items made of earthy materials are perfect on a table or shelf in the Southwest corner. Other things you can place here are anything ceramic, terra cotta, clay, porcelain, china, stone, plaster, resin, pebbles or shells from the beach. Basically earth materials, especially crystals, if they are in the shape of hearts, it magnifies their significance. Anything you put out must be in multiples of two.

Chimes and Happiness

"Energy- the strength and wisdom present in the Dragon's Cosmic Breath". According to ancient wisdom, the gentle sounds of chimes will help create a balance of natural energies and attract happiness and good fortune to your home according to the original book of wisdom, the I Ching. A windcatcher at the base can be especially helpful to reflect and refract light, further enhancing the chimes beneficial properties. It is recommended to hang chimes above a door or in the West or Northwest corner of your home. Wind chimes will also cure bad feng shui, as they not only notify you when someone is entering your space, but also disperse bad Qi and replace it with good.

Swarovski Crystal

This magnificent faceted crystal will fill your room with rainbows! Austrian crystals are one of the principal objects used to clear energy blockages in the ancient Chinese art of placement. Place in window or an area where light will hit and refract into beautiful rainbows

Clear Quartz Points

These are thought to amplify both body energy and thoughts. It can assist in the creation of power, clarity of thinking, meditation, cleansing, clearing the aura, spiritual development and healing. Quartz Points are considered the "stone of power". Place two quartz points, two quartz tumblestones, a Twin quartz, two Rose Quartz, two Rhodochrosite, two Rhodonite, or two Aventurine in your Southwest corner.

Consider these relationship Don'ts

Do not install any sort of water feature such as a fountain, pictures of the sea or water images in your bedroom or on the yin side of your front entrance. The yin side is the right side of the door as you face out of your house's front door. To do so is to attract a competitor for your partner's affections into your household, leading ultimately to the possibility of infidelity. The Water element douses the flame of desire and encourages tears.

Do not have pictures of three people in the Southwest corner of your bedroom.

Do not put any wooden or green items in the Southwest?wood destroys earth in the element relationship chart.

Other directions that can also be enhanced are East (green, wood, dragon, 3); for harmony and family, Northwest (gray/silver, metal, 6); for helpful people and interests outside the home, West (silver/gold, metallics, 7, metal) for teamwork.

Before implementing your Feng Shui measures, concentrate less on finding the right person and focus on becoming the right person with whom someone would want a relationship. Feng shui must be practiced with intention and in harmony with the emotional/spiritual, physical and intellectual aspects of your life.

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Crystals Associated with Love

Crystals, gemstones and minerals have played apart throughout history as ancient relics, symbols of power, wealth and glory and have been given as tokens of affection! Crystals have a very special place in the subtle energy therapies and a modality I always honor. For Valentine's Day, my tribute to "Love Stones" which help to generate self love, affection, love and beauty!

"Love Stones" : Heart Healing and Rhodochrosite

Gentle, yet probably the most vibrant loving stone to heal the Heart Chakra, especially for giving/receiving love. "Stone of Love and Balance". Also for loneliness, loss, heartache, fear, insecurities, inner-child issues, abuse, incest...Helps self-forgiveness, deservingness and trust issues, spiritual-and self-love, desire to live, purpose. Best worn 24 hrs. a day. Electromagnetic. Use on the Solar plexus, stomach (anxiety), food addictions, anorexia, asthma, eyesight (especially emotional not-seeing, to avoid pain). thymus. Open the hand healing Chakras. Specialized uses to detox/heal blood, liver, cancer. Works in the bathtub to de-stress the body.

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"Love Stones": Intimacy and Garnet

Intimacy is feeling close and connected to someone (developed through sharing and very good communications over time). Intimacy is what makes you want to share and offer emotional and material support to each other. Intimacy implies the desire to strengthen our moral character in a relationship. It allows us to find and keep, as well as show our best side to others. Garnet stimulates creativity, passion, and the circulatory system. The brighter the better. Red: Root and Spleen Chakra. Warms, energizes emotionally and physically (arthritis, frostbite, paralysis), grounds. Used by ancient cultures. Stimulates life force and sexuality, hormone balance, antibodies, fertility, persistence, stamina, passion, confidence (and stubbornness). Yang (avoid if excess anger, impatience, high blood pressure, heat, and inflammation. Root Chakra. is Red representing warmth and energy. Red represent love and help the wearer to strive for improvement in moral conduct. Garnets teach patience and constancy and are not to be used lightly. They develop love and compassion. They sharpen self-perception and extend that openness to others. Help calm anger, particularly anger directed towards the self. Buy Tumbled Garnet Now * Order Other Forms of this Stone

"Love Stones": Love, Beauty and Rose Quartz

This stone represents Love, beauty, peacefulness, forgiving, lovingness, self-love, emotional balance. Soft. Gently soothes and warms heart center. Emotional healing, loss, stress, hurt, fear, low confidence, resentment, anger. Slowly eases childhood traumas/neglect/lack of love, low self-esteem. Aligns mental, emotional, and astral bodies. Deeply in tune with emotional states. Its value as a nurturing friend cannot be overstated. A soothing influence. Helps diffuse negative stimuli and uncomfortable memories. Helps us discover the ability to love ourselves and makes us more open to other people. It is of particular value in helping us to forgive ourselves, hastening self-acceptance. Helps us realize that all change is important, even difficult change. Stimulates love and tender appreciation of all things. Advantageous for the heart and circulatory systems. Also helps the cleansing organs. The reproductive organs may become healthier. Said to help increase fertility. Recommended for those suffering from low self-esteem.

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"Love Stones": Love, Empowerment and Kunzite

Kunzite is a powerful, high level stone. It is used against negative energy and empowers positive and loving thoughts. Most effective on the Heart Chakra , it opens the emotional heart and spiritual heart. It represents unconditional lovingness and compassion. Used for healing abuse/loss/addictions. Helps emotional balance, confidence, connection to higher self and oneness. Kunzite is also used on the Brow and Crown Chakra for the reason that it deepens altered states: psychic readings, healing...being centered emotionally and spiritually. Strengthens healers and teachers. ReadWriteExecuteUser

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"Love Stones": Sexual Energies and Carnelian

Sexual relations can be the most intimate and satisfying communication two people experience. Yet sex is difficult for people to talk about, let alone improve, when problems occur. We are all sexual beings. It is important to acknowledge and always celebrate this fact. We are sexual beings so it's natural that we are sexually attracted to others. Carnelian represents confidence, boldness, initiative, dramatic abilities, assertiveness, outgoingness. Precision, analysis, appetite, awareness of feelings. Used at both the Sexual/Spleen Chakra and Solar Plexus Chakra, this stone warms emotions, passion, sexuality, physical energy, celebration, reproductive system. Helps you feel anchored and comfortable with your surroundings. Provides a connection to the past or to historical events. Strongly influences the reproductive organs. Can improve motivation. Helps one achieve greater success in career or personal matters. Helps ground people who meditate. GroupOther

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"Love Stones": Communication and Turquoise

Properties: This stone is most famous as an amazing over all healer for illnesses in the physical body and mental/emotional issues. Turquoise is known as a stone of protection and communication on every level. Use turquoise at the Throat Chakra and the Heart Chakra. Symbolizes our source (spirit/sky) and spiritual love for healing and helping. It is known as the stone which connects heaven and earth. Balancing Yin and Yang, energizing the meridians and cleansing/clearing the Aura. Turquoise is used at the Third Eye Chakra for increasing our psychic connection to great spirit through intuition and allows for much deeper meditation.
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Sexy Scents: Romantic Oils For Love and Romance

Try something new and different with your lover. Combine the art of massage with the magic of aromatic massage oils. This sensual mix stirs the senses and can send sparks flying between sweethearts. Also try diffusing any one of these oils in the air to spark the senses

First and foremost, it's important to remember that some smells send certain noses into ecstasy and others into furious twitches. Check in with your partner to find out which scents allure, and which sends their nostrils flaring.

Some sexy essential oil are:

Jasmine: is a bold, sweet scent. Jasmine is the greatest aphrodisiac of all. These night blooming flowers are picked at their hieght to bring out one of the most sexy scents. Associated throughout history with the compassionate Goddess of the Moon, Jasmine, grown along the Nile in ancient Egypt, is represented Isis, the Egyptian Mother Goddess who held the secrets of fertility, magic and healing.

Patchouli: is a sweet, earthy scent. Its smell is intense and spicy. From an energetic point of view, Patchouli, like Jasmine, is warm and yet anti-inflammatory in action. It combines a calmative property with a gentle stimulating effect that uplifts the spirit! Patchouli is a sweet and grounding harmonizing fragrance!

Neroli: is distilled from bitter orange trees. It has a refreshing, spicy aroma and is known for its sensual, exotic effect. Neroil oil is emotionally unifying and soothes with harmonizing effects. Described as both sensual and spiritual, Neroli helps to restablish the link between a disconnected mind and body. Neroli paves the way for a gradual release and allows us to recall hope and joy!

Ylang Ylang: is a rich fragrant oil that means "flowers of flowers". A scent to perfume the body or use for an euphoric massage. Ylang Ylang is relaxing, sexualizing and euphoric. The ecstatic sense of merging is inherent in Ylang Ylang. Like Jasmine, this oil helps to reunite our emotional and sensual natures, aspects of our being that need to contain each other and unite.

Rose: The Mother of All Flowers, the Rose has amazing powers of love, trust and self acceptance. Roses are representative of faith, hope and love and has the qualities to restore the very center of one's being. A gentle tonic of the heart, the compassion of the Rose is seen through it's ability to heal emotional wounds. When loss, rejection or sorrow has injured our capacity for nurturing and self love, Rose oil brings a sweet and gentle comfort, binding the "heart strings" from the Heart to the Mind. Rose oil's psychological properties lie mainly in its effect on the mind, the center of our emotional being. Rose oil calms and supports the heart and helps to nourish the soul!

Choosing a scent is half the fun. Use these oils to perk up any room with natural fragrance. Use them in the bath water for a sexy and romantic experience. Diffuse them in the air in the bedroom. Massage one or two oils into your pulse points at the wrists, neck and tops of the feet. Burn these oils in the form of incense. There are lots of creative ways to work with essential oils!

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12. I want to thank many of my friends at the Pacific College of Oriental Medicine and Dr. Ni at SU student center for their help in tips and referencing.

What is your experience with love and relationships? Sharing your own experiences often helps others. We'd love to know in the Peacefulmind Community.

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